Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu - Ch. 182 - We'll Fall In Love All Over Again

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Im so sorry but im just so ???? I usually understand when ichikawas is on the wrong but JESUS??? Anna got a jealousy issue and thats a rly unhealthy mindset to have šŸ’€ u cannot be getting this upset whenever a girl talks/hang out with ur bf...boys and girls can be friends without romantic feelings blooming between them... but hey insecure hetero mindset


Anna is also on the wrong here 😭 she did not handle well communication
 
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Well... Norio is a woman so...
Jokes aside, yeah. I get they're both 14-15 yo and very immature, but it was kind of frustating how Kyou wasn't the only one at fault, but he was the only one to apologize. Hey, just like real life
She being a woman has nothing to do with bad writing tho

"Just like real life" oh no...im rlly so sorry that both men and woman in ur life seem to have issues and unable to communicate in a healthy way šŸ«‚ i genuinely hope u meet good people who can communicate in a healthy way so u dont keep this misconceptions
 
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Its actualy a permanent step of progress for the two on their relationship.
The main issue wasnt exactly communication, it was willful ignorange on Kyo's part. He literally admits to it here and in the previous chapter realizes where he is failing by focusing too much on himself and not enough on how she feels.

This arc heavily relies on knowing the subtext of those two and how they think, react, and more importantly; how surprisingly well they are at reading each other.

Anna isnt a subtle girl at all(in many different ways lmao) and Kyo is pretty good at noticing her on topof that, communication wasnt the problem. He was keeping her at arms length for a long time and she was feeling incredibly lonely for it, yet, the ever so selfish and un-subtle Yamada Anna still bit her tounge and held back for his sake. While he was fully devoting himself to studies and neglecting her, he suddenly goes to hang out with a couple very attractive girls and hangs out with them.

He didnt tell her cause he felt guilty about betraying her like that. He knew why she was upset but wasnt being honest (hence the repeated "be honest" past chap). She knew he knew and was dissapointed he was still keeping her at arms length.

Anna is needy and clingy AS FUCK, she's self aware and tries to keep it under control but it still hurts. TLDR: she was just sad that he gave others priority and was still keeping distance from her.

PROOF it wasnt a communication issue: Kyo knew exactly what to say to get her attention, then said what he had to after getting it.
You get it. Anna even told Kyo about her flaws when they started dating. She KNOWS her shortcomings and even told him point blank. I know a lot of people are saying she was bad at communicating, but this is mostly Kyo's fault. If she has to explain to him HOW he hurt her, then there's a compatibility issue here.

Yes, communication is important. But if you are with someone that has point-blank told you they can be clingy and selfish, for you to then later avoid them AND spend time with other people whilst avoiding your responsibilities, yeah, that's shitty. ESPECIALLY if you're hiding it. She shouldn't have to explain; he created this situation.

Sometimes relationships suck. Shit's hard. Be a sensitive partner and care about how your partner feels and you won't have some of these problems.
 
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You get it. Anna even told Kyo about her flaws when they started dating. She KNOWS her shortcomings and even told him point blank. I know a lot of people are saying she was bad at communicating, but this is mostly Kyo's fault. If she has to explain to him HOW he hurt her, then there's a compatibility issue here.

Yes, communication is important. But if you are with someone that has point-blank told you they can be clingy and selfish, for you to then later avoid them AND spend time with other people whilst avoiding your responsibilities, yeah, that's shitty. ESPECIALLY if you're hiding it. She shouldn't have to explain; he created this situation.

Sometimes relationships suck. Shit's hard. Be a sensitive partner and care about how your partner feels and you won't have some of these problems.
So because she’s self aware of her shortcomings that makes it okay? Lol

If this is hard on her she needs to grow a spine and tell him what’s the issue
 
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Well that was definitely a very believable middle-school reason for relationship drama at least lol. Glad it's over anyway.
 
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Im so sorry but im just so ???? I usually understand when ichikawas is on the wrong but JESUS??? Anna got a jealousy issue and thats a rly unhealthy mindset to have šŸ’€ u cannot be getting this upset whenever a girl talks/hang out with ur bf...boys and girls can be friends without romantic feelings blooming between them... but hey insecure hetero mindset


Anna is also on the wrong here 😭 she did not handle well communication
the problem is that he hided it. It wasnt such a big deal but Yamad ais trying hard bot to be a hindranxe to his studies but he did all of this around in secret and kept hiding it.

Doesnt sound good in general and not only that, with a girl that Yamada is insanelly Jealous lol.

You have to understand that yeah, Moeko is just a good friend and all but at the same time its the closest girl to Ichikawa and they have a special conection and friendship that always bothered a bit Yamada.

Sure because she is too jealous but there are many small things that makes her feel insecure.

If Ichikawa was upfront, sure she would be jealous the same way but nothing much would come out of it cause imo
 
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"Why can't they be treated as equals" Anna takes cares of Kyo and he apologizes. "I just don't see why they can't be equal." Even though both of them are equally stupid teens. One apologized with action, the other with word.

For the "I don't get it" crowd. Anna was lonely and wanted to spend time with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend that lied about what he was doing not because he was with some girls but because he wasn't studying. The whole reason they aren't spending as much time together. She's mad that he lied. Well she's also a little jealous. You can see this in the video that was edited of showing the spots of their past memories with Yamada in the reflection of some shots to show the lack of Kyo being there. The last shot is of his empty desk.

Kyo may be an idiot for staying out all night but he's still smarter than some of you because he figured all that out last chapter.
she didn’t take care of him tho, she just went to his house made food for herself and ate it alone. He did Apologize tho.
 
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She being a woman has nothing to do with bad writing tho

"Just like real life" oh no...im rlly so sorry that both men and woman in ur life seem to have issues and unable to communicate in a healthy way šŸ«‚ i genuinely hope u meet good people who can communicate in a healthy way so u dont keep this misconceptions
What is bro yapping about
 
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she didn’t take care of him tho, she just went to his house made food for herself and ate it alone
Yamada is a big girl with big appetite, but I assume the pot of rice she's cooked is meant for both of them, it's just that since Ichi is getting silent treatment, he'd have to serve it himself. You can in fact see two portions after they've made peace. I also assume that Yamada came to his house to tend to him if he needs any nursing the way she did earlier in the manga, and maybe she did some nursing while he was asleep, we see that she did check up on him at least.
 
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So because she’s self aware of her shortcomings that makes it okay? Lol

If this is hard on her she needs to grow a spine and tell him what’s the issue
Yes, because he CHOSE to date her. When you date someone, you are CHOOSING them, shortcomings and all. Speaking from experience, don't expect women to change for you.

She shouldn't have to explain the issue when he knows how she is, and proceeds to do things that would end up hurting her anyways.

Date a few more women, and you'll see that Yamada's character is a lot more tame than how some women would be behaving in the real world.
 

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