Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu - Ch. 182 - We'll Fall In Love All Over Again

[CrisKy]

Yes, because he CHOSE to date her. When you date someone, you are CHOOSING them, shortcomings and all. Speaking from experience, don't expect women to change for you.

She shouldn't have to explain the issue when he knows how she is, and proceeds to do things that would end up hurting her anyways.

Date a few more women, and you'll see that Yamada's character is a lot more tame than how some women would be behaving in the real world.

Sounds like bullshit to me.

It should not be a case where he has to constantly deal with her shortcomings, that’s something she would work on especially if that becomes a problem in the relationship.

 

[Mr.Oblivion]

I won't even mention that you've brought Yamada's career into this again, when this conflict has nothing to do with it at all, but do you really think the manga will continue after this turn of events if Norio goes with this plot twist?

It seems that some of you dislike one of the main plots of the entire work so much that you try to pretend that this plot has no significance

It is the entire reason they cant even talk at school. Did you forget??

 

[eleven179]

I really dont get the I’ll ignore you because you should know why I am mad move, like won’t everyone benefit if the conflict is resolved earlier? Why risk falling apart, when you could have been the bigger person and the one proactive in fixing the issue. It’s a different matter if it’s recurring even when made aware of the problem

 

[HailBritannia_]

These few chapters felt so real, that's exactly how a high school relationship is. You fight over small things, one party, often the guy, doesn't realise what's wrong at first but reflecting on it understands what was wrong.

At the same time I'm pretty pissed at the amount of guys here not getting the issue: the most minor issue is they're abstaining from meeting because he has to study and he went to do something else, what got Yamada so mad is that feeling guilty he prioritised hiding himself over speaking to her, noticing she was upset and fixing things up. He was too focused on himself and not on them as a couple

 

[HailBritannia_]

I really dont get the I’ll ignore you because you should know why I am mad move, like won’t everyone benefit if the conflict is resolved earlier? Why risk falling apart, when you could have been the bigger person and the one proactive in fixing the issue. It’s a different matter if it’s recurring even when made aware of the problem

you've never been in a relationship as an adolescent. That's the most normal irrationality
I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm saying that these things aren't often as rational as you're being here

 

[Chuito]

You get it. Anna even told Kyo about her flaws when they started dating. She KNOWS her shortcomings and even told him point blank. I know a lot of people are saying she was bad at communicating, but this is mostly Kyo's fault. If she has to explain to him HOW he hurt her, then there's a compatibility issue here.

Yes, communication is important. But if you are with someone that has point-blank told you they can be clingy and selfish, for you to then later avoid them AND spend time with other people whilst avoiding your responsibilities, yeah, that's shitty. ESPECIALLY if you're hiding it. She shouldn't have to explain; he created this situation.

Sometimes relationships suck. Shit's hard. Be a sensitive partner and care about how your partner feels and you won't have some of these problems.

Exactly! And most importantly: HE KNEW EVEN BEFORE SHE GOT HURT!!

He knew, she knew he knew, he quickly figured out she knew he knew. Else he wouldn't have felt guilty and hidden it from her. They still love each other flaws and all regardless.

Seriously, its like this manga is made to teach younger people about relatio ships and how to do them properly

 

[Chuito]

I really dont get the I’ll ignore you because you should know why I am mad move, like won’t everyone benefit if the conflict is resolved earlier? Why risk falling apart, when you could have been the bigger person and the one proactive in fixing the issue. It’s a different matter if it’s recurring even when made aware of the problem

Emotions arent exactly rational. Anna still clearly wanted to be close to him and fix it (she came to nurse him, plus im damn certain he didnt dream up her touching him).
Regardless of her wanting to reconcile, she's still pretty upset, stubborn and hurt, so she didn't want to talk to him either.

Honestly she did more than most couples I've known in fiction and even irl lol

 

[Erricane]

How can you not notice that long ago when she always referred you to your given name, you edgelord? XD

Always trying to be cool can only take you so far in life.

 

[Snowmanne]

Nice callback

What chapter is this a callback to?

 

[mgRdr]

What chapter is this a callback to?

Chapter 21

 

[agz]

She shouldn't have to explain; he created this situation.

Ichi didn't force Anna to go into the entertainment industry.

 

[Snowmanne]

Ichi didn't force Anna to go into the entertainment industry.

She was in the industry before meeting him. He knew about this part of her and accepted it.

 

[Dorito_Kun]

It is the entire reason they cant even talk at school. Did you forget??

If we look separately at why they don't communicate at school, it's more Kyotaro's excessive caution to avoid any possible risks. This is caused by fear of the consequences related to her work, both for himself (they may forbid the relationship) and for Anna, but this does not mean that Kyotaro is not overreacting here, especially when he prefers them to behave like strangers. In other words, he doesn't really hang out with friends at school and simply adapts boundaries to his communication style.

As for that, yes, Anna's career only plays a role in why he ignores her at school. The conflict itself has nothing to do with their careers, and in order to resolve it, they don't even need to reveal their relationship or anything like that. It's just that Yamada, despite feeling lonely, put up with it, trying to support him, because she understood his position. And then it turns out that he didn't go to school that day. Meanwhile, when Kyotaro was dragged home by Moeko, without trying to defend himself from Momo by saying that he wasn't studying (Kana didn't go, saying she had work to do), he only thought of her in order to avoid misunderstandings, when there was an opportunity to say that he wasn't busy studying so that she could come later, for example. Nothing prevents them from being there. And then, when she contacted him, he felt guilty that he wasn't studying and gave priority to protecting himself.

Anna's career doesn't have that much of an impact here. If it were a situation where Anna's job simply left her no choice, I would understand why it was mentioned here. But every time some drama happens, some people here start using it as an excuse to express their resentment at her choice of who she wants to be as the cause of everything, devaluing the other problems that they both has. It's as if Yamada will leave her career and everything will be fine, even though the problems and fears won't completely disappear for both of them, and at this stage, neither Kyotaro nor Anna want that.

In any case, that's not the main point of the answer. It's just that user hopes that the story will continue and continue, without Yamada being an actress. Who Anna is is a fundamental and integral part of the story and one of the main drivers of the story, on par with Kyotaro's “healing” and their relationship. And people, because they don't like some aspect of the story based solely on that, simply pretend that it's not important.

 

[Dorito_Kun]

Ichi didn't force Anna to go into the entertainment industry.

Instead of writing again:

Anna's career doesn't have that much of an impact here. If it were a situation where Anna's job simply left her no choice, I would understand why it was mentioned here. But every time some drama happens, some people here start using it as an excuse to express their resentment at her choice of who she wants to be as the cause of everything, devaluing the other problems that they both has. It's as if Yamada will leave her career and everything will be fine, even though the problems and fears won't completely disappear for both of them, and at this stage, neither Kyotaro nor Anna want that.

It seems like people wouldn't complain about her career if the plot didn't touch on their relationships in any way, because no one complained about that before

 

[Redheadgearhead]

Mark my words, that video will get swapped with the real one by accident and go viral.

 

[Dorito_Kun]

She was in the industry before meeting him. He knew about this part of her and accepted it.

Not really, she is quite naive and doesn't seem to fully understand the dark side of the industry. She wasn't even very cautious when she took photos at Kyotaro's house and only started to be more careful when he told her about the necessity of doing that

 

[telefonevoador]

What? That's how the arc concluded?
I thought Yamada was going to say her piece! Instead it's all just Ichikawa, who's waaaaaaay under pressure with exams and all...

...

A real waste of pages honestly, if it weren't for the HUGE SHITTY STUPID BROAD, that made me laugh

 

[Wizardrone]

when are they gettin' married?

thanks for chapter

 

[TheCancerFest]

Ahh the „woman manual 101” drama is over finally.
I honestly keep forgetting they are around 15 years old with my trying to put them in adult relationship frame.

 

[Spoopa]

Anna's career doesn't have that much of an impact here. If it were a situation where Anna's job simply left her no choice, I would understand why it was mentioned here. But every time some drama happens, some people here start using it as an excuse to express their resentment at her choice of who she wants to be as the cause of everything, devaluing the other problems that they both has. It's as if Yamada will leave her career and everything will be fine, even though the problems and fears won't completely disappear for both of them, and at this stage, neither Kyotaro nor Anna want that.

To say that Anna's career doesn't have an impact here is being deliberately obtuse, when it is the root of the problem. The entire reason things got to this point is because of Ichi's self-imposed ban on hanging out in public in any form. Why did he do this? Yamada's acting career. Why can't they hang out in public? Because Yamada can't be seen hanging out with a boy. Why can't Yamada profess her love to Ichi publicly? Because it can't be known that she has a boyfriend. Hell, I'm not even sure if the people above her manager even know that she's dating someone.

Yamada's career was a point of contention for everyone who paid attention, even before they got together. That's not people hating one aspect of Yamada's character, that's people hating the resolution to one big part of the story, one that even Norio doesn't seem sure on how to address, what with her kicking the can down the road with the Kimioku kissing scenes. It just really seems like we are gonna have to live with "And then Ichi self-sacrifices for the sake of Yamada, again, and becomes a cuck, the end".