Going with the flow again. God the sister is annoying. Don't meddle in other peoples business. I was unsure before but now I'm positive, Kaori forced this engagement on Ozu. Yeah, he needs to man up since he's obviously just doing whatever the women he's dated wanted. I think it is because of his parents divorce as well. People have only focused on how divorce affected the women in the story, but I'm sure it had an effect on Ozu as well. It's why he just goes with the flow. Now is the time to get out of this relationship, not after marriage. Kaori's reasons for getting married seem screwed as well. You get married because you want to spend the rest of your life with that person and make them happy. Should be for other outside people. Also, I don't think she doubted for a second that Ozu would go along with it. I bet she was the girl in the flashback that kinda made fun of him when he got dumped. She probably told him that if he did what she said they would be happy. He has no backbone in these situations, plus it was right in front of the grandma and father in the hospital. He was dead meat. Run Ozu, run. He needs an intervention.