@Happsta
Yeah.
“This is not a ‘normal’ life. A normal life is better. We should stop.”
Also why bisexual erasure is a biiiig thing in a country where “the standing nail gets hammered”. I saw that first hand. People in nichome just stopped talking to me, and a friend told me to not mention that. (thought I was pan when I lived there. Figured out I was a lesbian years later.)
“You can have a ‘normal’ life. You will choose that over a gay one. You’re straight”.
Heck, that’s a problem in the USA!