i guess how i've usually seen it is i put myself in the shoes of when i was a kid and remember how stuff like that was back then while also having the ability to make a clean separation between those memories and how i treat intimate relationships as an adult.
think of it this way, when scan theft was rampant back in the day watermarks were just diagonally splayed across the entire page
let's just be happy this group only went as far as half a corner xd