i dont get why people complaining about age gap, i have relatives that are 20 years apart when they are married, and it was of legal age. They are still living happily and i dont get why outsiders keep looking for opportunity to make their life living hell
@kaminomikan its like phobia or trauma, its uncontrollable,
you cant just have your loved one approach you and say "hey stop getting scared of that" and its fine and dandy,