Fk
Fk the pressure then tbh i was also going to comment this but you addressed it I think it's way too big of problem right now like that's not something you just do it for not being shameful ngl a classmate of mine 10th grade( high school)used to brag Abt it how he lost his virginity and well...
Well age gap is not big like it will be 5 to 8 years at most but since when being untouched and also having a preference for untouched girl was high standards like wht in my country i can bet it's normal 😂i think in Japan it was also normal