You're making a rather uncharitable comment here. That being said, people will absolutely view certain actions differently based on gender. It's completely natural. You should unironically look into things like evolutionary psychology, certain behaviours exist for a reason. Both cultural and...
Work can be fulfilling, but spending your best years as a corporate slave isn't the road to happiness. People also don't seem to realize that you don't have to choose between family and a career, you can have both. You're essentially being presented with a false choise.
That’s not how it works. No amount of training or technique can bridge that massive chasm in strength, especially when the male opponent does have some experience.