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To be honest I can see how both side can feel about this.
He was gone for 20 year and for the 20 years she slept with other people.
No shame on her for doing that because he gone for 20 years.
But I wouldn't blame the guy for leaving. To be even more honest know myself I would leave.
Because the major thing for me is that I wasn't dead that might sound stupid to other people to me what she did is cheating.
In nearly all wedding they say until death do us part.
Some might ask me. So you stay single that whole time I would say yes even if she died wouldn't find other partner. Because I know for sure in my wedding I would say something a long the line of even in death you will be my only one. So even in death my partner will aways be by my side.
Again no shame on her for doing what she did but to me and the type of person I am it just rubs me the wrong way
also good for them for staying together this was wholesome in a weird way.
Edit this not a type of ntr but it is cheat in my opinion.
If you guys couldn't tell I got a very strong staying loyal mindset going on.
He was gone for 20 year and for the 20 years she slept with other people.
No shame on her for doing that because he gone for 20 years.
But I wouldn't blame the guy for leaving. To be even more honest know myself I would leave.
Because the major thing for me is that I wasn't dead that might sound stupid to other people to me what she did is cheating.
In nearly all wedding they say until death do us part.
Some might ask me. So you stay single that whole time I would say yes even if she died wouldn't find other partner. Because I know for sure in my wedding I would say something a long the line of even in death you will be my only one. So even in death my partner will aways be by my side.
Again no shame on her for doing what she did but to me and the type of person I am it just rubs me the wrong way
also good for them for staying together this was wholesome in a weird way.
Edit this not a type of ntr but it is cheat in my opinion.
If you guys couldn't tell I got a very strong staying loyal mindset going on.
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