The Shiunji Family Children - Vol. 8 Ch. 53

[Weebshit5149]

You could also spin it to say that it's quite refreshing to see someone so blatantly awful that they would actually kick a child.
Sure, there's all of the manipulative emotional and verbal abuse toward Banri... and then he straight up kicks a child.
It's like when John Wick broke the rule you're never supposed to break (his puppy) to add effect to what scum he is.

Naw man it's just lazy

 

[XDRage]

Ummm... guys... I know that fucker is shit-tier villain and all but...
I think the bigger issue is - how the fuck did Banri end up with this walking piece of garbage? Even girls who like bad boys would not be interested in this worm. Unless it's blackmail I really don't know how....

 

[Dew_16]

Reading these past 2,3 chapters made my blood boil istg

 

[juicebox-hidden]

I think the authors writing has become so bad that it's actually good now. Banri's boyfriend quite literally has no redeeming qualities, which at first glance is just lazy writing to make the guy unlikable, but then you look at our world and realize that most bad people are just like that. No reason to be evil, they just are. And Banri's boyfriend is the most human person in the whole series because of his inherent selfishness.

I dislike children too, but to kick an innocent child (who, let's be honest, wasn't even bothering anyone) is pretty messed up. And yet, people like this are around us everyday. Hell i met someone like this 2 days ago, so clearly this isn't just Banri's boyfriend not being written well. The author probably didn't put any thought into this considering how trash rent-a-girlfriend was, but it's still impressive coming from him.

 

[FoxDie85]

No, you didn't word it poorly, I just think it's a bad take.

Someone's personal phone is their personal space. Demanding to invade that space on the grounds of "I want to monitor who you're talking to at all times because you might be cheating on me" just means you don't trust your partner at best, or you're abusively controlling at worst.

And anyone like that has things to sort out before they should be worrying about things like relationships.

This might be a rough take, but I honestly don't blame you — society often teaches us to think this way.

You call it privacy? You've already shown your private parts in bed to them, planning a future together.

Trust? That's a naive perspective. Everyone lies at times, and anyone can be tempted. If not caught, even 'trustworthy' people might act wrongly. The world has more wrongdoers than righteous people.

Men often lust after women, and women can be emotionally manipulated by men — facts regardless of marriage or children. Some do it to feel alive, out of boredom, history, or when opportunity knocks. Trust isn't the main drive for safe relationships.

The result? Broken families and harmed children. Haven't you heard stories of people blaming the very person who trusted them for their infidelity?

Wake up, my fellow Dex-chan Lover.

 

[cesar024]

Well it’s pretty evident it’s a bait all of this , I mean I’m sure this guy is her agents of something like that !

 

[UdenEmpati]

This might be a rough take, but I honestly don't blame you — society often teaches us to think this way.

You call it privacy? You've already shown your private parts in bed to them, planning a future together.

Trust? That's a naive perspective. Everyone lies at times, and anyone can be tempted. If not caught, even 'trustworthy' people might act wrongly. The world has more wrongdoers than righteous people.

Men often lust after women, and women can be emotionally manipulated by men — facts regardless of marriage or children. Some do it to feel alive, out of boredom, history, or when opportunity knocks. Trust isn't the main drive for safe relationships.

The result? Broken families and harmed children. Haven't you heard stories of people blaming the very person who trusted them for their infidelity?

Wake up, my fellow Dex-chan Lover.

You sound like you must've been hurt in the past or something, in which case you gave my sympathies.

Still doesn't make violating the privacy of someone else your right out of lack of trust.

Everything you just described isn't something that can be prevented by controlling a partner through taking away their privacy; all of that can be handled with consensual communication, with counseling, and with putting in the work to make a good life together.

I'lI be honest, you sound like you're pulling lines straight from some NTR hentai script or something. If you're experiencing that sort of thing in real life, going through their phone isn't going to help, that's just a relationship you shouldn't be in because that person is going to do that regardless of what you do.

Learn to be a goddamn adult and stop trying to control others because you can't put in the work of building a relationship properly.

 

[K1NGST0N33]

What the fucking hell is wrong with this motherfucker ?

This guy is honestly one of the most infuriating prick I've seen in a manga. Like, for real. This is non-stop physical and psychological abuse, jealousy and possessiveness.

Banri would better get rid of this asshole as fast as next chapter, and I hope Arata will manage to help her if she needs him...

 

[ShadowHusky]

Bro deserves to get a beating until the police come arrest him for assaulting a minor. What the fuck is wrong with this dude that he cares about being a member of society, then goes around kicking random kids in public when he thinks no one is looking?

What's with this family and being involved with people that assault strangers?

 

[taiyozSunnyday]

Oh my god. This guy's a f*cking Regulus.

Literally Regulus but extremely unfunny

 

[Statyc]

1. It's okay to check your partner's phone; why treat it as a bad thing? Many relationships could be saved if partners were to embrace this.

No, it isn't. It's being treated as a bad thing because it is.

To preface, I've been in my current relationship for 20 years with my now wife. My wife and I have unfettered access to one another's. I know the pass code to hers, and she knows mine. We regularly use each other's phone to look up something, watch a video, queue up a podcast, and so on.

Before my wife, I have been hurt and betrayed a time or two. I have never demanded access to my wife's phone, laptop, or anything.

Never have either of us done an investigation of the other's phone. And neither of us have required access as a foundation of trust because that's not how trust works.

You are confusing required access with access freely given. Required access is oppressive, fascist, and explicitly states you distrust the partner in the relationship. If there's distrust in the partner, then there's no point in being in a relationship with that person.

There are no high-minded, intellectual counterarguments. Only devolved cavemen would demand to go through everything on the phone to force a relationship to work.

3. Doing that to a kid — the writer is trying very hard to portray this guy as a villain.

I assure you, as a parent, people like this exist. The writer doesn't have to try.

Although, the actual physical harm is usually due to being on illegal drugs. So, yeah, that's a stretch.

Only explanation that works. Maybe the guy family is more powerful, or maybe he knows she is into Arata, but on that case, he would be less worried about her "cheating" with random guys and would worry about Arata himself.
In any case, even for the older sister wanting to avoid trouble for her family, I would be mad at Banri for possibly let things get so badly when she could have just get some help.
She even let her sisters talk about the guy as if he were a saint. Would she even let that monster meet her sisters?

Most abusive relationships start off as picture perfect. Then, after the honeymoon phase is over, the abuse begins in small, tiny ways as the abuser starts pushing that boundary until it becomes overwhelming like we see here. Once the victim finds themselves there, they find it hard to leave and will even justify the abuse because they're ashamed they became a victim. They'll even make the abuser sound like a good person.

There are a bunch of reasons victims stay, and most have nothing to do with blackmail or family status.

https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/why_leaving_abuse_is_hard/

 

[dominik.dubrovski]

I saw info that the thirteenth volume will be the last one, is it fake or not?

 

[Blergggg]

Worst part of all this is that guys like this are EVERYWHERE. Men this scummy are why women choose the bear

 

[UdenEmpati]

I assure you, as a parent, people like this exist. The writer doesn't have to try.

Although, the actual physical harm is usually due to being on illegal drugs. So, yeah, that's a stretch.

sadly, substance use isn't the only way this sort of thing happens. Some people ...are just like this.

It does have a correlation with substance use and/or cyclical abuse/trauma, but there are people who simply don't see other people as people, and will take every opportunity to prove their own superiority/dominance over others through physical & emotional abuse like this.

 

[JChow112]

So far it's been great series up until this chapter, hopefully it will be payed off decently

 

[JChow112]

When i think about it again, this guy is not even really needed for the story. Could use another thing rather than "abusive bf", like other girls had quite a great romance development, but this one quite meh. Unless it can be somehow explained how Banri ended up with that guy, which honestly not gonna be really interesting.

 

[Statyc]

Ummm... guys... I know that fucker is shit-tier villain and all but...
I think the bigger issue is - how the fuck did Banri end up with this walking piece of garbage? Even girls who like bad boys would not be interested in this worm. Unless it's blackmail I really don't know how....

Guy is insufferable. It would be a shame if he run straight to a knife in his way out of the store.

On the other hand, what did banri saw in this guy to date him? Guy’s a yapper of pretentious shit and no likeable trait at all.

I wonder how she even ended up with this guy? Was he acting nicer before? Or is he blackmailing her with something? Otherwise she could just leave him there so there has to be something like that.

Because abusers don't advertise they're abusers. They'll present themselves as good people before letting the facade drop little by little.

The most unlikely part of the story, actually, is Banri saying out loud to her abuser that she wants to leave.

 

[Killthescribe]

No nuance to the relationship at all, the guy is just the fucking devil? So he needs to come in and hero complex his sister. I can't believe how fucking corny this is, bro can't write good drama to save his life.

 

[SupBroZX]

I wonder how she even ended up with this guy? Was he acting nicer before? Or is he blackmailing her with something? Otherwise she could just leave him there so there has to be something like that.

you know,, one of romance trope where the girl is in love with someone but because he aint loving her back or because its incest in some cases and the girl dont know what to do so she instead chose to go out with dickhead asshole piece of shit.

 

[MightFriedRice]

WTF what an asshole, I can already feel it when he was introduced during when Banri was with Arata. That's just a fcking human garbage