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What a vile 'synopsis'. Though congratulations on the ability to embody the abusive ex-boyfriend. Anyone who sneers at this story is doing nothing but revealing their own nature.

Actual Synopsis: MC is a decent, everyday guy showing empathy and helping out a woman as she's teetering on escaping an abusive boyfriend. Story presented is quite realistic, and provides a good portrayal of an outsider stepping to help in a situation like this.

(BTW, no this is not a comedy. IDK why the manga is tagged that way.)
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I would cheer for the one beating her.

The man made an accurate description of the story. Get off your white horse and enjoy your second-hand romance.
You're a damaged person one of these days if a woman ever takes pity on you I want you to know she is settling for sure.
 
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Another one that becomes sensitive at the first sight of someone not agreeing with their point of view without the ability to comprehend basic human values and lacking accountability understanding.

Let's cover your first point about the characters:
- FMC: For someone that's scared, broken and making mistakes she also doesn't seem able to grasp the concept of accountability for her own actions. From her point of view nothing she did in the past was wrong and what's happening to her is somehow a result of destiny and bad men in her life. In summary, I believe that people should receive help but at the same time I believe that not everyone should. She simplly falls in the latter category based on what she's shown as a person. I already explained why I believe this in my seccond post.
-MC: He is a doormat but here's the catch. Helping her, not wanting to own her, use her and shame her is not the issue. I do agree with you on these being traits of someone praiseworthy. However, the way he does it without raising any issues with the FMC about her past relationship with her family and friends, her toxic behavior and even her poor intellectual choices is what makes him a doormat. I know you don't see it this way because you have a doormat's point of view on the matter, I understand people can have different views on the same subject and that's ok.



This here ladies and gentlemen is the perfect case of a lonely cuck embracing his keyboard warrior energy. If you would have bothered to read my second post, because you clearly didn't get the message from the first one, you would have understood that my issue is with the characters themselves and how the story is told, not the concept of the story. I even wrote an alternative to chapter 14 to showcase how as a writer you could even redeem characters that have a toxic personality. I admit it's not the best writing for something that came out of my ass in the 5 minutes it took to write that whole post but it should get the point across, and yes, I do have higher expectations from someone that does this for a living like the author(bear in mind this is based on a novel which underlines even more how bad the story is). You on the other hand, I have no expectations from whatsoever. I know you will go on through your life thinking you are always right, continue living like a cuck while viewing yourself as a white knight and that's completely fine; because I know that not all people are the same and thank our lucky stars for that.
The irony of calling someone sensitive for someone not sharing their view point, then ranting in multiple paragraphs, never mind the multiple responses you've mad is way too thick. You ought to look in the mirror before, stupidly and quite pathetically, thinly veiling your own sensitivity and insecurity. The cuck cries the loudest after all.
 
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_>... you need to see the world more ur mind is Warped. Nothing you said made him into a cuck.
Are you visually impaired or mentally challenged? That post was mostly about the FMC's behavior yet you somehow extracted the MC being a cuck from that. Are you projecting your own personality here or something?

You're a damaged person one of these days if a woman ever takes pity on you I want you to know she is settling for sure.
Ok, so in the end it's a bit of everything. You're not able to comprehend sarcasm and your cuck energy is worried about any potential relationship a woman might have with me. Don't worry, I've never been the type to settle in life so bitches with a toxic personallity are all yours. Thank you for your concern though!
 
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The irony of calling someone sensitive for someone not sharing their view point, then ranting in multiple paragraphs, never mind the multiple responses you've mad is way too thick. You ought to look in the mirror before, stupidly and quite pathetically, thinly veiling your own sensitivity and insecurity. The cuck cries the loudest after all.
I like the word irony in this context very much. A worthless existance of a cuck that would be a better asset to society if he were dead is calling irony in this context and it's beautifull. You're calling me out for responding to cucks while also providing insight to the manga's contents, in the meantime your worthless existance is only capable of producing the argument "I don't like your opinion, you are wrong, I am right!".

You can see there are people that posted their views on the manga which is opposite to mine in this thread but they didn't reply to my comments and just made their own independent post. Respect to them! People like you, that will never amount to anything in life and aren't capable of winning an argument or a fight in real life, are an exception. I'm merely defending myself to the wave of cucks that relate to the feeling of being triggered and aren't able to create an opinion of their own. I have no problems looking into a mirror, I wouldn't recommend you do the same though. If you do look into a mirror, you will only realize how pathetic your existance is and might want to kill yourself, a benefit to us all nonetheless.

You agree with me? Fine. You don't agree with me? Great. But if you are going to start an argument with me just because your little feelings got hurt and don't know how to deal with these pathetic cuck emotions, then expect me to fight back when you do.
 
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Ironically – the people giving criticism, are actually making decent points. Additionally, the format and grammar for their writing is quite clear and legible.

The people defending this story on the other hand, have so far been doing the opposite, as well as at least one with a long run-on sentence.

After reading through, it does seem like, “a cuck.” Although it may be an exaggeration. I also find it ridiculous that someone said this is realistic.
 
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lol,
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“Hey, wanna do it?”

In this so-called “romantic comedy,” Yamamoto—a spineless college student working nights at a convenience store—reunites with Hayashi Megumi, the arrogant “Queen” (read: Bitch) who once looked down on him in high school. After seeing bruises from her abusive boyfriend, this clueless fool offers her a place to stay, despite her past scorn and her audacious, second-hand baggage. Trapped in a more-than-friends-but-not-lovers arrangement, Yamamoto’s every move reeks of desperation, while Megumi takes full advantage of his spineless nature. It’s not heartwarming or funny—just the grim spectacle of a cuck too blind to his own humiliation and the brazen woman who’s found the perfect doormat.
I wanna be an elden synopsis weaver like you hb, teach me how to condense shit works into key strokes
 
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Another dishwasher propaganda manga, where they try to make be used by a abusive hoe something good.
 
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I like the word irony in this context very much. A worthless existance of a cuck that would be a better asset to society if he were dead is calling irony in this context and it's beautifull. You're calling me out for responding to cucks while also providing insight to the manga's contents, in the meantime your worthless existance is only capable of producing the argument "I don't like your opinion, you are wrong, I am right!".

You can see there are people that posted their views on the manga which is opposite to mine in this thread but they didn't reply to my comments and just made their own independent post. Respect to them! People like you, that will never amount to anything in life and aren't capable of winning an argument or a fight in real life, are an exception. I'm merely defending myself to the wave of cucks that relate to the feeling of being triggered and aren't able to create an opinion of their own. I have no problems looking into a mirror, I wouldn't recommend you do the same though. If you do look into a mirror, you will only realize how pathetic your existance is and might want to kill yourself, a benefit to us all nonetheless.

You agree with me? Fine. You don't agree with me? Great. But if you are going to start an argument with me just because your little feelings got hurt and don't know how to deal with these pathetic cuck emotions, then expect me to fight back when you do.
I made a account just to thank you guys! This whole forum was way more interesting than the manga itself lol. Hope de best for all.
 
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I made a account just to thank you guys! This whole forum was way more interesting than the manga itself lol. Hope de best for all.
"Don't forget to drop a like, subscribe and I'll see you guys the next time a cuck replies to my posts!"

Jokes aside, I did have a little fun as well. Glad you enjoyed the show... even though I never meant for it to turn into one.
 
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What did I just read? Let's try to understand why this is trash, step by step.
1.The main character's classmate treated him like shit.
2.They graduated, the main character is smart, studies at university, and works part-time in a store.
3.While working part-time at a store, the main character notices bruises on his classmate. It turns out that her boyfriend beats her. She decided to move in with her boyfriend early, and her parents did not approve of this choice, so they did not give her money for college/university. From this, we can conclude that she is stupid and only has a high school education.
4.The main character gets involved in something that is none of his business, and it looks as pathetic as can be. He offers her to stay at his place for the night. In doing so, he puts himself in a losing position from the start.

The main character's words: I won't do anything to you. If you don't believe me, I can just give you the key. I'll sleep at an internet café myself.
5.It follows that we are observing a foolish protagonist. I am uncertain as to why he is assisting an individual who treated him poorly. Does he desire physical intimacy with her? No. Does he want her to clean the house or manage the household? He is perfectly capable of doing so himself. I sincerely do not understand why he wants to help this fool so much. Why does he want to help this worn-out fool? Or does he like to finish off her boyfriend's meals? Does he want money from her? No, she has no money. I will tell the truth. He gets nothing but problems from this. What if her boyfriend wants to beat him up? I doubt that someone who likes to finish other people's meals will be able to stand up to her boyfriend. So we see the main character doing something that is of no benefit, but on the contrary, carries all kinds of risks. He doesn't even have a motive for doing it. Imagine, the character has no motive, he's just the author's puppet.

I strongly advise against reading this piece of trash.
 
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What a vile 'synopsis'. Though congratulations on the ability to embody the abusive ex-boyfriend. Anyone who sneers at this story is doing nothing but revealing their own nature.

Actual Synopsis: MC is a decent, everyday guy showing empathy and helping out a woman as she's teetering on escaping an abusive boyfriend. Story presented is quite realistic, and provides a good portrayal of an outsider stepping to help in a situation like this.

(BTW, no this is not a comedy. IDK why the manga is tagged that way.)
This shit is just drama filled and i cant judge till there eng chapters posted here for the laters
 
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What did I just read? Let's try to understand why this is trash, step by step.
1.The main character's classmate treated him like shit.
2.They graduated, the main character is smart, studies at university, and works part-time in a store.
3.While working part-time at a store, the main character notices bruises on his classmate. It turns out that her boyfriend beats her. She decided to move in with her boyfriend early, and her parents did not approve of this choice, so they did not give her money for college/university. From this, we can conclude that she is stupid and only has a high school education.
4.The main character gets involved in something that is none of his business, and it looks as pathetic as can be. He offers her to stay at his place for the night. In doing so, he puts himself in a losing position from the start.

The main character's words: I won't do anything to you. If you don't believe me, I can just give you the key. I'll sleep at an internet café myself.
5.It follows that we are observing a foolish protagonist. I am uncertain as to why he is assisting an individual who treated him poorly. Does he desire physical intimacy with her? No. Does he want her to clean the house or manage the household? He is perfectly capable of doing so himself. I sincerely do not understand why he wants to help this fool so much. Why does he want to help this worn-out fool? Or does he like to finish off her boyfriend's meals? Does he want money from her? No, she has no money. I will tell the truth. He gets nothing but problems from this. What if her boyfriend wants to beat him up? I doubt that someone who likes to finish other people's meals will be able to stand up to her boyfriend. So we see the main character doing something that is of no benefit, but on the contrary, carries all kinds of risks. He doesn't even have a motive for doing it. Imagine, the character has no motive, he's just the author's puppet.

I strongly advise against reading this piece of trash.
That’s a pretty good summary of what goes on in the first few chapters. Would it ever occur to you that someone might want to help someone else just bc? Ever heard of empathy?

Mc probably could do a better job sticking up for himself, but he can put up with a little bs if he truly means to help her. He knew what he was getting himself into, and folding just bc it’s hard would actually be pathetic.

As for the boyfriend, why tf would mc be afraid of him. That pos beats his gf, but no shot he has the balls to attack another guy, it’s just a power trip. Mc is rightfully worried about what that guy would do to the girl, since she’s the one actually in danger.

I think the romance is being pushed a little too hard, but it’s not crazy considering they’re living together. A better manga would have there be no romance, since that’s not the point of why mc helped, but that’s beside the point.

I think I’m doing a bit too much, but I’ll add, for point 3, she isn’t dumb for lacking an education, she was naive for falling for the asshole, but if someone turned you into their maid, how tf are you supposed to achieve anything in life? She’s trapped in the home or apartment, not sure if you understand that. Maybe look up domestic violence and learn something.

Personally I think only a vile person would try to take advantage of someone who’s being abused, but maybe that’s just me.
 
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"Don't forget to drop a like, subscribe and I'll see you guys the next time a cuck replies to my posts!"

Jokes aside, I did have a little fun as well. Glad you enjoyed the show... even though I never meant for it to turn into one.
You live in a strange world where everyone who disagrees with you is “fighting” you and is a “cuck”. Dude, they’re disagreeing, this is internet beef.

Have a little self awareness, you’re arguing on a manga discussion post.

As for what you’ve said on the story, kinda wack. Idk how you think mc is a doormat and a wimp if not trying to take advantage of someone is also praiseworthy? Mc had some basic human decency and decided to help someone in front of him bc he could. He had some empathy ffs, not so hard to understand.

Why do you need to have the girl be “held accountable”? You think she did something to deserve that abusive fuck? Let’s take a look at the first chapter. Idk what you see, but all I see is mc remembering“damn she’s rude and idk why people like her”, and he’s hesitant to help her right away. Bro forgot her the second he left high school and you’re acting like she scarred him for life. I mean, let’s be honest she ain’t normal, bc being with an abusive partner fucks your shit up. She’s basically living in an alternate universe with how she can’t do anything right in the bf’s eyes (for example can’t clean up, and if she asks before she throws something away then she’s crazy). She needs time before she could be considered a normal person, and rn she’s acting reasonably tbh.

I could go on, but basically you have no clue what abuse does to people and are confused why she can’t instantly get her shit together. Really shouldn’t be my problem but your “everyone else is wrong, not me” mentality is annoying. Just look up domestic violence or smth instead of showing off your ignorance.

Lastly, I’m sure you’ll call me cuck too, but tbh, this ain’t the type of manga I’d self project onto. I’d love to be the sort of person who can sacrifice themselves for others unconditionally, but irl idk if I’d do anything more than call the police on that shit. Yeah sure this is a fantasy world so everything is working out nicely, but mc is for a fact doing the right thing. You’re so caught up on “she hurt him”, that you’d rather the human being he can help would suffer more.
 
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This shit is just drama filled and i cant judge till there eng chapters posted here for the laters
It’s fine, basically just some guy helping some girl recover from abuse. He’s not super complex, basically just clean freak + empathy, while the girl is abuse + arrogance. The romance is a little forced but not distasteful. Read it or don’t, doubt you’ll regret it either way

I guess the one thing is that it’s basically a textbook girl who was abused does something that displays how abuse messed her up, then mc perfectly navigates whatever problem arose. Mc should probably screw up a little more for this to be believable
 
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That’s a pretty good summary of what goes on in the first few chapters. Would it ever occur to you that someone might want to help someone else just bc? Ever heard of empathy?

Mc probably could do a better job sticking up for himself, but he can put up with a little bs if he truly means to help her. He knew what he was getting himself into, and folding just bc it’s hard would actually be pathetic.

As for the boyfriend, why tf would mc be afraid of him. That pos beats his gf, but no shot he has the balls to attack another guy, it’s just a power trip. Mc is rightfully worried about what that guy would do to the girl, since she’s the one actually in danger.

I think the romance is being pushed a little too hard, but it’s not crazy considering they’re living together. A better manga would have there be no romance, since that’s not the point of why mc helped, but that’s beside the point.

I think I’m doing a bit too much, but I’ll add, for point 3, she isn’t dumb for lacking an education, she was naive for falling for the asshole, but if someone turned you into their maid, how tf are you supposed to achieve anything in life? She’s trapped in the home or apartment, not sure if you understand that. Maybe look up domestic violence and learn something.

Personally I think only a vile person would try to take advantage of someone who’s being abused, but maybe that’s just me.
I doubt that you can simply help someone who treated you like shit. At the same time, providing abnormal help puts you at a disadvantage if someone tries to take advantage of you. Empathy is good, but it's time to face reality. By providing such abnormal help, you put yourself at a disadvantage, which is something only a fool would do. But the main character is a good student, knows how to clean up, and has a part-time job in the service industry, which requires communication skills. The author has written the character terribly, so that he does things that are not characteristic of him.


Where are the minor inconveniences? He gives the key to the apartment to a person he hasn't seen in a long time, and on top of that, this person has a negative attitude toward the main character. What's more, he says he'll sleep in an internet café, which is not a minor inconvenience at all, knowing that a stranger will be in your apartment, and here it is important to clarify that this person, again, had a bad attitude towards the main character. In exchange, the main character gets nothing at all except a huge risk.


Again, what's in it for the main character? Why should he help someone who treated him like crap, only to get a huge risk in return? What can she give him? She's not a virgin, she doesn't have money, she doesn't have a college degree, and the main character can handle the housework himself and make enough money to support himself. As for why he should be afraid of the girl's boyfriend, the answer is simple. The girl's boyfriend had the courage to make her fall in love with him, while the main character puts himself in an unjustifiably risky position for no reason. The difference in their actions clearly shows the superiority of one over the other.

I also think that romance doesn't fit here. It would be much better to create a oneshot where the main character gets what he deserves for taking such a huge risk.

I say she is stupid not because she lacks education, but because she has put herself in such a terrible position. A smart person would never put themselves in such a position, but would try to prevent it in every possible way.

Personally, I think that you shouldn't help someone who treated you like shit. Especially if it puts you in danger.
 
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I doubt that you can simply help someone who treated you like shit. At the same time, providing abnormal help puts you at a disadvantage if someone tries to take advantage of you. Empathy is good, but it's time to face reality. By providing such abnormal help, you put yourself at a disadvantage, which is something only a fool would do. But the main character is a good student, knows how to clean up, and has a part-time job in the service industry, which requires communication skills. The author has written the character terribly, so that he does things that are not characteristic of him.


Where are the minor inconveniences? He gives the key to the apartment to a person he hasn't seen in a long time, and on top of that, this person has a negative attitude toward the main character. What's more, he says he'll sleep in an internet café, which is not a minor inconvenience at all, knowing that a stranger will be in your apartment, and here it is important to clarify that this person, again, had a bad attitude towards the main character. In exchange, the main character gets nothing at all except a huge risk.


Again, what's in it for the main character? Why should he help someone who treated him like crap, only to get a huge risk in return? What can she give him? She's not a virgin, she doesn't have money, she doesn't have a college degree, and the main character can handle the housework himself and make enough money to support himself. As for why he should be afraid of the girl's boyfriend, the answer is simple. The girl's boyfriend had the courage to make her fall in love with him, while the main character puts himself in an unjustifiably risky position for no reason. The difference in their actions clearly shows the superiority of one over the other.

I also think that romance doesn't fit here. It would be much better to create a oneshot where the main character gets what he deserves for taking such a huge risk.

I say she is stupid not because she lacks education, but because she has put herself in such a terrible position. A smart person would never put themselves in such a position, but would try to prevent it in every possible way.

Personally, I think that you shouldn't help someone who treated you like shit. Especially if it puts you in danger.
Idk, I think she really didn’t do all that much to him. I think he remembers her arrogance but was never wounded by it. Your perspective makes sense, I just don’t read it that way. I think mc had other alternatives if he wanted to help that make helping remain the right decision, even if the way mc went about it put a heavy burden on himself.
 
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Idk, I think she really didn’t do all that much to him. I think he remembers her arrogance but was never wounded by it. Your perspective makes sense, I just don’t read it that way. I think mc had other alternatives if he wanted to help that make helping remain the right decision, even if the way mc went about it put a heavy burden on himself.
As far as I'm concerned, she did something. He gave her a little help, and she expressed great disgust. Moreover, according to the main character, one can understand something

The main character's words: I don't have a single good memory of her.

Moreover, I agree that he could have helped her in another way. But still, he should have asked for compensation for this help.

I am not an evil person; sometimes I can also help selflessly if it is help that I can provide and that will not cause me any harm.
 
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As far as I'm concerned, she did something. He gave her a little help, and she expressed great disgust. Moreover, according to the main character, one can understand something

The main character's words: I don't have a single good memory of her.

Moreover, I agree that he could have helped her in another way. But still, he should have asked for compensation for this help.

I am not an evil person; sometimes I can also help selflessly if it is help that I can provide and that will not cause me any harm.
Idk what compensation you could ask for, that would not come after some sort of rehabilitation. Asking for sex is just gross and she’s got limited options as for what she can do (I’ve read up to chapter 18 btw). If her bf stops being a danger to her, she could probably get a job and/or attend a community college (if Japan has something like that). Repayment is a long term thing in my eyes and depends on the girl having the means to do so.
 

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