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but this time it didn't come out of nowhere.37 chapters until author pulled this shit, congrats
His truama was clearly established from the start of the manga
but this time it didn't come out of nowhere.37 chapters until author pulled this shit, congrats
Its more then a misunderstanding. Its his truma rearing it ugly head, hopefully for the last time.Ah, the classic misunderstanding trope. Let's see if this can be resolved within 2 chapters.
What? Where in my reply did I make you think I blame my little siblings for things they literally have no control over?I often blame people for things they can't control as well. I am glad you as a big brother can blame your little siblings for things they have literally no control over.
If you think he is the worst big brother to ever exist. You exist within a bubble filled with sunshine and rainbows. As someone who is an older brother and ironically a younger brother as well. Rei can not help what other people do especially if he is completely unaware of it even happening. As an adult I can tell you have a lot of growing up to do.
See you are doing it again. You are blaming rei for something he has absolutely no control over. I would only assume you as an older brother do the exact same thing to your siblings.What? Where in my reply did I make you think I blame my little siblings for things they literally have no control over?
Are you seriously misunderstanding what I said?
I meant that if I saw my happy little sibling suddenly become sad, I'd step up and try to figure out reason why, instead of staying back and ignore it like a loser. And Not fucking blame my little sibling for being sad.
I'm actually more concerned about how you must be acting as an older brother in real life if you can't see Rei's fault in this, yet somehow ended up accusing me of blaming my little sibling. Lol.
Bro, you really need to grow up as an adult asap for the sake of your own young siblings. Because Rei has absolute control over this things.See you are doing it again. You are blaming rei for something he has absolutely no control over. I would only assume you as an older brother do the exact same thing to your siblings.
Or this is fantasy and not everyone is going to project themselves onto fantasy in the same way you are now. Wow shocker right?
Few things.Bro, you really need to grow up as an adult asap for the sake of your own young siblings. Because Rei has absolute control over this things.
AGAIN, he could investigate and talk with his brother's friends and ask them about why his precious brother changed all of sudden. SPECIALLY He also studies at same school as his brother, it would be more easy to look and to check why his precious brother has been sad, introvert lately but he DIDN'T.
It's not hard to understand. I am now even more suspicious that you are either a awful brother OR you are lying to be a big brother to anyone. Because what the hell? How hard is for big brother to look over their precious siblings on their OWN, to help them (Not control them), to protect them, to keep them happy and to hold their smile over their own pity fake "perfect" personality.
Honestly, I could still argue against your points, because even just looking at your third and fourth point shows that you really think Rei was there for him, even though he never actually tried to look into his brother's issues and only noticed when Yota started being happy again. Again, he could have talked to his friends when his brother was sad too, but he didn't until his brother started being happy again.Few things.
1. His brother isn't a sad introvert. He just avoids girls.
2. He noticed his brother has changed, but as an older brother it is good to let your family have their own autonomy. You can't just stick your nose in every little thing they do just because their personality shifts. Changes in personality happen as you get older. You will learn that when you grow up.
3. To compound onto 2 if you notice bad changes or dramatic changes you should ask them about it, and let them know you are there for them. Rei obviously makes it known to his brother he is there for him. By literally being there for him.
4. He did go and seek out his new friend to talk about him. He noticed his brother having more fun and changing now ever since he met her. That is what caused this entire situation to begin with. He is unaware that he is unintentionally the cause of his brother's issues, and I can guarantee if he did talk to him about it he would never tell him the actual issue simply because he knows Rei isn't at fault.
5. Ironically I am going to flip what you said to me back to you. I think you have a lot of growing up to do. You are not emotionally mature enough to handle situations like this, and are likely being more of a burden on your little siblings than you realize. Knowing when to get involved, and when to stay in your lane is a big part of growing up as a brother. You need to not coddle your siblings, and let them make their own mistakes so they can learn the same way you did. That is the only way for them to truly grasp the severity of their mistakes. You are not their parent you are their sibling, and you need to act like that.