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Sorry to say this chen, my religion is my root of life, so if my bestie being stupid like that, I'll leave them with all their stupidity. Religions aren't something to compared of.

Wait... I don't have any bestie from any different religion.. 🤔 but still, if they try to compare any religions this or that, fk, I'll leave them. I mean, why comparing if we all could live in harmony without talking about that personal topics? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Welcome to no easy answers. 'X would be amazing if only they weren't racist/homophobic/that political party/religion/had fewer tattoos/piercings/normal hair....'

No one is a saint or irredeemable. Learning where you draw the lines is part of growing up. It doesn't stop at any point (if it does, problem). Opinions can be replaced if better ones come along.

Talk to her about this before it festers. Either that ends the relationship or it makes it stronger, but you know and can move on. Hang in there - life gets weird, but if you keep making an honest effort you have nothing to be ashamed of.

Right. I agree with Panda-san. Talk about it. But I assumed she won't understand your point cuz it's not the first time she done that to you 🤷🏻‍♀️

As Panda mentioned, knowing where to draw the line is part of growing up. Prejudices aren’t something people are born with; they’re learned from those around them. It’s possible your friend didn’t mean any harm with the question, maybe it was just meant as banter. But if you keep this to yourself and don’t speak up, it could come across as though you’re okay with this kind of behavior. That’s how these things can persist and grow.

It might feel uncomfortable, but having a conversation about it can help set boundaries and clear the air. If your friendship matters, it’s worth addressing.

Just try to learn the difference between "wanting to know other religions" and "being arrogant". I experienced much about dealing with this type of shit. That's why my current acquaintances are full of a very considerate people. We just live in harmonies without comparing each other beliefs, I often reminders them to do shalat on Friday, they shared some ketupat in Eid Al-Fitr, and they loved Christmas gifts I gave. 🤷🏻‍♀️

That's tough. My bestie would never do anything like that to me. You need a larger support network, one good friend isn't enough to be healthy, do have other people close to you? When I'm upset I often talk with my siblings or parents. And, I hate to say it, but online friends aren't enough in cases like this. If your trust in your bestie is shaken, you need someone you trust to talk to about it. This is all my personal opinion, but I hope it helps.