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I'm talking to a cute girl, but I don't even know if I can call her my friend, or how to ask her out on a date. she also lives in another city
I would appreciate any tips

but I don't even know if I can call her my friend

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Wait.. Why? Since when you both talking to each other? And how about the intensity? Like, you both talking to each other everyday about anything, right? Or it's still on the "talking when we have something to ask" phase?

she also lives in another city

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Oh my... Another city.. what a difficult way to start a first move wait... It's not a different country! So I guess you guys can make it.

We started talking three days ago, and I'm trying to come up with topics to talk about, but maybe that is a bad idea
We started talking because we are following each other on Instagram, and neither of us knows why

Ohh my.. AHHAHAHA!!!
3 days? Jesus... Take it easy men, don't rush anything. Just slow down a little bit. Hahaha.
But!!! She's interested in talking to you right? I mean, if you both can talk to each other daily about almost anything, I think it's a good sign.

Thanks for the tips!!!!!!
Also, can you be precise by what do you mean by rushing? I'm not very good with social interactions, so giving examples would be the best

I mean, you've said about asking her out on a date.. while you guys only started to talk to each other for 3 days!
Like, if you ask her out with that a little amount of interactions... ummm, for example, if I was her, I prolly gonna suspicious about dis dude, three days ago dis dude just started to talk to me and if he ask me out to meet or whatever, I'll just block him immediately.

In some women's perspective, if you want to meet them IRL while they're just know a little about you, it will look like a bad sign, some women will think your only intention to approach them is for fun or a one night fling.

But remember, it's only in general, in some women's perspective. Not every women thinks like that.

Atacante

All you gotta do right now is keep the conversations going and let it flow. Just take it easy. You'll know when is the time for meet up. She'll give you some signs, or, if she's bonkers like me, she'll be the one who asks for a meetup.
ganbareee!!!

After talking to her for a bit and making sure you like her and she is a cool person, I believe you should ask her whether or not she has a boyfriend, as that will show off your intentions and could open a door to more intimate conversations about romance, expectations of love and whatnot