She may be look, but you're better. Which means you can instead direct your attention to you, who's superior. Love yourself and it won't hurt looking at others because you're the best. Since you're the best, aim for world domination and obsess yourself with it, so everyone can be obsessed with you. At that point, you'll be able to look at anyone and see only yourself, so you won't be hurt by anyone. Because you're never going to hurt yourself, right?
@athayanezant Nah, I just meant that's what it sounded like, not that I believed she meant it that way.
The most useful thing I could say is that if she is seriously thinking about resolving this issue, then she should seek professional help. At least first to try and understand how all this works and why she keeps having this obsession. Then maybe she might see what she can do to stop it, if that's really what she's looking for.