Then speak more, but still mind your words, and think twice before speaking to avoid the piss drill incident(don't ask)(you will not ask, or you will scream).
@Basic_human
Ei one of my people! I remember back in school my classmates forgetting completely that I existed when handing out party invitations, scheduling activities, etc.
Oh but I remembered, especially when the time came for them to actually need my help for studies, since I was the kid with the top grades in class.
I asked a girl pretending to be chummy with me for my notes once "What's my name?"
She didn't remember, so, neither did I when it came to handing out notes.