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So what are the good things you've done that you want more people to acknowledge?
Mangamoz
Mangamoz
Reading how Cambodia is one of the places from which the "strict asian parent" stereotype came from really opened my eyes to your plight.

Some of the things I am reading they do to kids makes me worried. I mean-
-Google says they still regularly practice corporeal punishment for academic failure there... :meguuusad:

Even now I see students on R/Cambodia asking for ways to leave the country from how abusive they tend to be with their children.
Mangamoz
Mangamoz
It's very much NOT my place to say, but if they are that abusive to you, you may want to focus on finding a job, and gathering enough money to move out when you can at some point. Just my recommendation. I know it is likely very hard to do though, and would take a good while to do.
LYAISASIMP
LYAISASIMP
I'm still a minor. And they aren't being PHYSICALLY abusive, just MENTALLY abusive. Actually, they don't mean to, but they don't know how to control their temper. A lot of children get beatings, so I'm pretty much lucky
Evans01
Evans01
@Mangamoz
they still regularly practice corporeal punishment for academic failure there...
Yeah, that sounds harsh. I mean, maybe practicing corporeal punishment for some really extreme moment is good to make the children learn (ex: while they stealing someone's good, etc). With some restriction, ofc. I mean, my dad was also physically punishing me. As SEA Asian, I also know this kind too.

-lemme wait the cooldown to continue it

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Evans01
Evans01
But that was caused I disturbing people that praying which that would be really disrespectful, so he "physically punishing" me. He spanking my butt, but only to give me the pain and to learn, not for leaving any injuries. Spanking my butt is just a bit warn that my mischief was already gone too far. But, the true punishment is I banned from going play with my friends for a week so I can reflect my mischief.

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Evans01
Evans01
I think that's would make childern learn more rather than just make them scared with the physical punishment. But ofc, not all Asian parent would learn it and they just goes punishing their sons as how it satisfy them, physically abusing them, then asking why the children doesn't want to treat them better when the children becoming adult.

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I still had some words for OP, hehe
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