Ah yes, because every person automatically processes grief the exact same way.
"Ah, statistics say X, so it must be unequivocally applicable to everyone."
Calling authors incompetent because this a ginormous stretch and it’s hilarious that you’re calling him apologetic and saying they are crying because they don’t share your viewpoint
Considering he cheated on her before and after the son's death and closed himself off from her and you still are on his side 100%, I feel bad for your wife.