First time I'm agreeing to something Makino said. That toxic mom is just full of prejudices and bullshit excuses.
Just like my mom. The kind that apologies just to end an argument. But they can't understand what they did wrong because they can do no wrong.
Cause you're a shitty mom, who raised shitty children, children who only got turned into passable human beings by getting out of your clutches. And the fact that you're still asking what you've done wrong is one of the biggest red flag of parenting 101 😐
If I remember correctly Xinran accepted the money and the scholarship into some famous American music school Mu Ye's father gave her to break up with her. So yeah, Red has reason to be worried than Xinran is here to get more money.
Now that you mentioned it, I don't remember the mention of a funeral being held. What if she's in coma and it's been so long almost no one think she's gonna wake up(someone gotta believe if no one has pull the plugs yet)