bro wtf, is not like you can simply put 14 kg of muscle in 2 months, that's an amount that would take years at the very least even after taking every steroid known to men
Nah you are not the only one, as a man is fine to express emotions or whatever but one should at the very least have the common decency not to do it in front of people who you have just met and not make the situation awkward for everyone involved.
I recommend you watch the video "How to have "Indirect S*x"... (Rikotan) [Eng Subs]" on Yura is channel, it will make the handholding is lewd meme much funnier