I get the principle of “this is where we part ways, because everyone will shower you with a gaze of contempt for being what effectively constitutes a nepo baby”, but there’s a right way and a wrong way to go about it, esp with someone like her that’s been hurt by betrayal far too many times already
Like, my man, do you realize she doesn’t even have a home or place at an inn yet? And helping her during adventuring activities being an issue doesn’t prevent, say, providing a home for her until she can provide for herself. What you’re doing isn’t letting her fly out of the nest on her own, it’s literally just abandoning her halfway
You’ve done a bit of good already, so I know it’s good intentions conveyed poorly, but my man, this is a really bad fuck up