This is a threesome of terrible people.
The guy, the girl and the author.
The girl: they have been dating for a year and when there were attempts at basic intimacy he beat him.
the guy: he completely forgives her and puts her on such a high ground that he can't even hear her, doesn't care for her opinion, he has to work toward an imaginary sense of worthiness he believes she has but that he made up in his mind.
the author:
I think he doesn't understand people and hates his audience and maybe himself too, why do you have to write about these aliens? Why do you do write Romance if you don't like it and can't write it? Why not stick to another genre?
This doesn't feel like a story, these are the examples Chat GPT would give if asked to write a Romcom based on japanese tropes.