What he wants and what captivates him are fundamentally at odds. He won't find someone unless he deals with his own trauma or a wife is forced on him
depending , trauma might never fully go away but it def seems like something that needs to be treated by a psych for a few years before thinking of marriage, even tho JP tends to look down on mental health
Tho while the details Should def be discuss I feel like “wants children”Should be on the application forms , even if it’s “expected” more in Asia to have kids even if you’re working as an adult woman , if not something like “I can’t have children” if they’re infertile as well