@eviljackspicer Honestly, if it's not him, it's her, and I'm starting to find more reasons to believe that she's the problem.
The dude's only real issue is following the first thought that comes to his head without thinking about the consequences. Thankfully, people are calling him out on it, and he seems to realize that it is an issue, and now he's trying to curb it.
He probably would stop making an ass out of himself if she'd stop giving him vague responses as to what she wants from him. As far as he knows, she does look his way, but isn't too sure how she feels about him. It is up in the air as to whether he'd mature after getting together with her or not, but it's very clear right now that he's the only one of the two thinking of trying to better himself as a person while she's putting up a front to hide her indecisiveness and does things that may seem mature, but just reinforce that she's someone who's attitude resembles a teen trying to act like an adult.