Class de 2 Banme ni Kawaii Onna no Ko to Tomodachi ni Natta - Vol. 6 Ch. 31.2 - Meeting
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Na he still a deadbeat he pretty much gone for most of the series from now isn't it?
100% supporting the mom and son finantially... and in Japan works differently... it's not so simple as just visiting all the time like this.... what else he could do?...
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Cut back his hours, try find a different job, move locations in order to make the relationship work, take your pick these aren't impossible or unrealistic things to do. Hell I have family members in Japan that have done this.
Just from how they talk to eachother we know who gave up on the relationship the mum still sees the dad fondly even admits to loving him and did everything she could to make the "family" work.
The dad worked and supported his family sure but it's not he actually tried to solve his problems.
Let's act like he did end up taking his son, what then does he magically now have time for him? Nothing changes he would still never be home and never supporting the son in any real meaningful way all he would be doing is taking the son from the mother who clearly actually does everything for her child.
leaving your work without a good reason will blacklist you with most companies on the field. He got promoted, he cant just "cut hours"
So I guess you are assuming office workers have freedom jobs and hours huh... no wonder you are shouting some baseless arguments..
Japanese toxic working environment is way more complicated than this.
but I give you that. If he got custody, things wouldnt improve much for Maki, he just wanted him near
But I honestly dont understand ehat you guys mean by "deadbeat". I am not an english speaker but this feels like you are trying to say he is not doing everything he can as a dad, when he is doing above and beyond under the shackles of japanese society.
Abd its quite naive trying to say "who gave up first". They both couldnt live together and thats how it is. She still loved him but he was pished away and had to deal with this, no one can be blamed ar this point.
Sure he was at fault for not being able to communicate his thoughts and all, but if the situation came to a point of splitting up, how they cope with it after is a separate issue.
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My guy my family is from Japan I know about toxic work culture it's bad but it's really not an impossible situation the way , it's still entirely possible to find or get a new job especially when you have experience.
It's not really naive we know his stated reason but reality is he didn't even try I can entirely fault someone. Saying they both couldn't live together makes it seem wayyy mire equal a split and reason lets be honest 99% of this can be squarely blamed on him.
This is just an aside too and I know japan doesn't see it like this but dating your colleague specifically one working under you is gross the power dynamics at play get murky even if she approached him first he still doing it is gross.
Also by his logic he shouldn't really date anyone he can't commit to a relationship when it comes to real commitment because of work but he can do so now? Even without every else this guys still foul for that imo.
As for going above and beyond, not really he's doing what's expected even by japanese, he's a deadbeat even by japanese standards especially with the more modern standards expecting more than financial support
Welp my family is from Japan as well, I have family that lived 10 years or 40 years and its mostly from them that zi know most of it and yeah... for sure saying to get away from this is not "impossible" but my uncle just mentioned that its easier to move countries than have a peaceful change of job in the majority of the cases, but without knowing exactly what is his career and company dynamics its pure speculation, but you are ignoring way too much of social dynamics for someone that should know more of how Japan works.
Him in a relationship with a coworker would solve a lot of issues related to lack of communication at least since she would know most if not all of his problems.
And since you didnt clarify what is deadbeat, I still think you are talking nonsense. He is overworking enough to support both of them and still try yo be part of his life even living far from where he lives.
He makes it clear that if Maki lived together, things could improve and all, so yeah, I am just assuming you are wrong and calling him a dead rat is just stupid.
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Agree to disagree but maybe don't think about having a family If you think the father isn't in the wrong. I somehow doubt you would make a good parent
Im not saying he is right, Im saying he did his best.
quite a stupid take judging my parenting skills like this. Just shows your maturity level is below the floor. Have a nice day, you RLY need some growing up, kid.
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Really*
Please learn to spell it you're going to try talk down to someone, otherwise maybe think about going back to nursery so you can learn your letters better.
Me having to use a language that I am not native just so a dork pike you could understand so this conversation could even happen, shows actually who shoukd go back to the nursery to learn anything.
Good work being an immature entitled prick that through those many posts showed lack of knowledge, empathy and living experience. If you are a parent this would add on the disaster as well.
But if my english is not good enough for you because, which language do you prefere? I only know 4, but maybe I can try yo be more compreensible an entitled boy like you.
Or maybe not, why am I wasting time to someone like you that ao far showed no capacity for critical thinking or maturity.
When someone tries to speak my native language, I actually understand or try my best to do so. If you cant understand, maybe the problrm is in you.
Really sorry If I wrongly assumed you had an intellect to have a proper conversation. I made a severe mistake clearly.
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Maybe you need a bit more time learning the language the structure of that first paragraph was total ass you're acting like English is my first language either xD
I am a parent, and big deal you know 4 languages so what? So do most people on earth, you think that makes you special or something? English is my third language I don't use that as an excuse for poor understanding or writing.
But yhh go on about how you're oh so mature and wise and intellectual, really translates though your inability to write words like "problem"
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To this day, after re-reading this manga for 3 times, I don’t get the point of this chapter, like what was the MC trying to prove? What is the point?, his mom and dad both moved on with their lives, he’s the only one stuck in the past.
And what is the point of the picture? What is the point of introducing them to your “friend” and saying that you have someone now? She’s not his girlfriend yet.
This chapter ruined this peak for me, it’s like CRINGE to the point where i can’t read it with a straight face.
The better plot for me is if the MC talked to both his parents + his father’s girlfriend, sat down and started telling them how good they are, and how the memories of their family are priceless to him, and that’s it, like making your father’s girlfriend take a photo of both your parents? Seriously?.
And what is the point of the picture? What is the point of introducing them to your “friend” and saying that you have someone now? She’s not his girlfriend yet.
This chapter ruined this peak for me, it’s like CRINGE to the point where i can’t read it with a straight face.
The better plot for me is if the MC talked to both his parents + his father’s girlfriend, sat down and started telling them how good they are, and how the memories of their family are priceless to him, and that’s it, like making your father’s girlfriend take a photo of both your parents? Seriously?.
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Maki deep down knew about the broken relationship of his parents, however, as the good little boy as he was, he did not express his feelings back then and kept bottled them up inside.
He knew even if he had expressed that he wanted his parents to reconcile, things would still take their course. However, as Umi's father said: Maki's feelings are valid and he has the rights to express them, even if they would not matter in the grand scheme of things.
For the photo part, he just wants to have something to reminisce about the happy time of the distant past.
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