Hana ni Arashi - Vol. 6 Ch. 68 - Stormy School Trip (1)

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How old are you again Nanoha ? I see that the trust is only Chidori sided. When Chidori was jealous because of Mai knowning past Nanoha, she ask Nanoha about her past to know it. Also isn't it better if your GF and your friends go well together ?
 
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@Lilliwyt your girlfriend having secret with another girl is 100% a thing to be jealous about. You're talking as if you have never went through a relationship before lmao.
 
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@Xystus Well i hadn't actually. But that one thing to be jealous and talking about it, that's another to be jealous and sulking like a little kid.
 
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@Lilliwyt lmao ok. try having a relationship before talking then, and you will realize what you said is just your inexperience talking.
 
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This is a little too realistic. Everything is normal, until........... IT ISN'T! Then you go around in circles for a while trying to figure out what happened and why, til you're so tired and pissed you don't care any more. Then you develop a mental twitch that is cued by the innocuous statement "Oh, it's nothing" .
 
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Even Nanoha can get a bit jalous sometimes ! They're still teenagers after all, it's normal for them to be a bit up and down .
 
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@Xystus So asking for Nanoha to talk about the problem with Chidori and not acting like a little kid is not tthe right thing ? I might be inexeprimented here but that's seem the most rational thing to do in this situation. Also try to having a real argument and not just mocking me because "lmao you know nothing" is not an argument.
 
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@Lilliwyt no I wasn't mocking you, I'm talking about the validity of your opinion because this is something you have not experienced and the series is actually depicting something very realistic that actually happen in relationships. Trust me when I say that this is perfectly normal and WILL happen to any relationship.
 
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@Xystus Listen, if i comment only on things i had experience on then i wouldn't comment on anything. Just because i don't have experience on something doesn't mean i shouldn't talk about it. It can also happen that peoples talk to each other when they have problems with each others. I get it she is upset that Chidori keep it a secret but she can also talk about how she don't like Chidori keep secrets from her to Chidori. It's not like it's unrealistic for two persons to have a conversation about a problem.
 
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@Xystus @Lilliwyt
People having bad problem solving skills and hurting their partner in public is realistic and will happen in relationships. But about 70% of couples break up within the first year as well, so normal doesn't exactly equal good.

Popular media has a bad tendency to promote bad relationship advice for the sake of drama, and people have a bad tendency to take popular media as a role model for how relationships should be. Chidori and Nanoha are indeed young, so it's understandable, but I don't consider having a fight and then making up to be romantic.

While I'm enjoying this story, I wouldn't want anyone to think that humiliating your partner in front of their friends is an appropriate way to resolve anything. To use a metaphor, being able to fix a gaping hole in the wall is impressive, but when you're the one who drove a car through the wall in a fit of jealousy, it's not exactly something to boast about.
 
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@Lilliwyt you know what I'm not even gonna bother replying to you anymore after this lol. It seems that explaining this from a personal experience has fallen to deaf ears.

PS: You're asking two teenagers in their first relationship to act like adults? LOL.
 
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I don't know why asking 2 teenagers to talk to each other is asking them to act like adults but apparently it is. You don't have explain anything beside "it will happen". I don't give a fuck anymore honestly. It's seem that i ask the impossible when i said they should talk to each other when they have problems. They're 17 not 10 for god sake,at this age you should be mature enough to know that sulking because you're upset is not the right thing to do.
 
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@Xystus
If you don't allow your significant other to keep secrets, then you're basically saying that you can't trust them. Just because that's how your relationship works doesn't mean that's how everyone's relationship works, or how relationships should work.
 
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sigh.... gotta force some drama eh author -_- and then to do that in front of their friends :/
 
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@schuyguy Please don't put words in my mouth. I said if your girlfriend has a secret with another girl, as her girlfriend you WILL be jealous of it. What you do with that jealousy is another story but being jealous is certain. And this is perfectly normal, especially in teenage love. Please, don't put words in my mouth or derail what was actually said.
 
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@ Xystus

Again, you can only speak for yourself. You're saying "you will be jealous", but you don't know that. Maybe you would be jealous, but you don't know me, or anyone else here. Personally, if I asked my girlfriend what she'd been talking about with my friend, and she said, "it's a secret", then that would be that. I wouldn't really care.
 

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