and going "vlad the impaler" isnt possible. he's the future grand duke, the extended family of the royal family, and her brother is the eldest son of the pope. the fact that he would try to massacre them is exactly why she cant tell him. this is an incredibly delicate situation. she also has complicated feeling about her family. she loves her middle brother and feels that he's the only family member who has ever loved her, despite him knowing (to an extent) about Caesar and not doing anything. and she still believes she's to blame for Caesars behavior... it's not that simple, be kinder to her.