I Can't Do That With My Former Student - Ch. 3

[Navybase]

My blood’s sugar is rising I might need to cut my leg!!!

 

[Purplelibraryguy]

Age gap, whatever. This is ridiculously cute.

 

[popo53414]

that's not a sun, that's a pair of them

 

[jaymsjags06]

The ex was honest and then jump her, respect on the guy.
Author wanted to depict him as a bit of abad guy, but if you ar ein a serious relationship with someone having sex is natural, and from the dialogue is clear they were together for a while, not being given the green light is a sign of the other side not giving trust or not being compatible, he did the right thing to axe the relationship, rough? yes, but correct.

Agree, I think the ex wasn’t a bad guy, he stated that he wanted sex and was honest, and most likely she didn’t give enough, knew that they aren’t compatible

 

[Grigser]

My only merit is being able to speak English
SHE JUST LIKE ME FR!

 

[Gravitypull]

Very cute, like that she didn't immediately be like "I love you"

 

[Geneaux]

it's not that he dumped her, it's how he dumped her.

• "but you won't let me hit that".... Imma giive this some leeway for the translation here but you really wanna open up a separation with "well I see you mostly for sex"
• "whenever we get a good mood going"... if she's distracting from sex it was clearly not a good mood.
• "You're bland and I'm tired of it, tired of you"... So you never took the time to get to know her, her hobbies, or aspirations. And it sounds like you never opened up about YOUR hobbies/aspirations either. Just talk about how you keep getting denied sex.

I guess there's minimal respect for respecting her boundaries and cutting it off, but this felt like a very selfish relationship. And unfortunately Sensei seems to have internalized that feedback. Not entierly his fault, but it shows you need to be careful with your words.


"You're beautiful, but I don't think we're compatible in bed and I feel I never truly got to know the real you. Let's see other people". Boom. Same words, very different delivery.

To argue the first point, those aren't even the same sentences. What the author wrote through the ex was frustration, lack of patience, understanding, etc. What you wrote was literally fuckbuddy dialogue. We know this is because ex did not simply say "but you won't let me hit that". We had a whole page of additional dialogue, that you conveniently omit just just to say "well I see you mostly for sex". Sex is immutably an important part of virtually any adult relationship. They way he brought it up was certainly crude, but he had his reasons and they weren't unfounded either. He obviously was not that bad to her, because the worst of scum would've simply resorted to 'other means', but we're only three chapters in so who knows. We might see him again under different circumstances, judge him then.

Lastly, they dated: she had all the time in the world to get the chickens in a row, and blew it. Literally by her own admission. The ex is not entirely without fault, buy neither was she. Everyone is different and the act of dating is literally there to do resolve just that, its not just "oh hey lets just get some snacks". If you think that he didn't give respect, well then pot-meet-kettle. "I ain't a little kid", because that's what it looks like from the outside looking in.

 

[harimauhujan]

Compared to the first chapter, I wouldn't have imagined chapter 3 would hit this hard

 

[chojinra]

that was quick. is the raw far along or did Author really speedrun a publication from 3 chapters?

The only thing I'm worried about is if this is publicized, it's going to drag out instead of being a nice tight run.

Not that I can hate on the creator, but I hope it doesn't get unnecessarily dramatic. Just the necessary drama!

 

[chojinra]

To argue the first point, those aren't even the same sentences. What the author wrote through the ex was frustration, lack of patience, understanding, etc. What you wrote was literally fuckbuddy dialogue. We know this is because ex did not simply say "but you won't let me hit that". We had a whole page of additional dialogue, that you conveniently omit just just to say "well I see you mostly for sex". Sex is immutably an important part of virtually any adult relationship. They way he brought it up was certainly crude, but he had his reasons and they weren't unfounded either. He obviously was not that bad to her, because the worst of scum would've simply resorted to 'other means', but we're only three chapters in so who knows. We might see him again under different circumstances, judge him then.

Lastly, they dated: she had all the time in the world to get the chickens in a row, and blew it. Literally by her own admission. The ex is not entirely without fault, buy neither was she. Everyone is different and the act of dating is literally there to do resolve just that, its not just "oh hey lets just get some snacks". If you think that he didn't give respect, well then pot-meet-kettle. "I ain't a little kid", because that's what it looks like from the outside looking in.

What I'm trying to figure out is why are people trying to assign blame? Sure, he's a crude asshole who probably only wanted to smash, but she also just didn't feel the same way. In fact she knows she's bad a relationships, and understands why she isn't in one.

Both were honest in their own way, and that led to where she is now. Getting Rizzed by someone who studied at the Hugh Jackman's School for Gifted Cougar Catchers.

 

[nayu6187]

 

[MewOne]

Man not only he got a gentleman body. His heart is also gentleman
Giga chad

Thank you so much for the sl Disco and Dankee!!!

 

[jaymsjags06]

What I'm trying to figure out is why are people trying to assign blame? Sure, he's a crude asshole who probably only wanted to smash, but she also just didn't feel the same way. In fact she knows she's bad a relationships, and understands why she isn't in one.

Both were honest in their own way, and that led to where she is now. Getting Rizzed by someone who studied at the Hugh Jackman's School for Gifted Cougar Catchers.

Imagine if the teacher’s ex is MC’s uncle, would be peak awkward

 

[KimKowabunga]

BUILT FOR SEX (and pampering)

 

[GreenOwlRanger]

Man, she's boring, sloppy and hot? That's exactly the kind of goblin woman I'm looking for.

 

[adidas10]

He Is a Man of Focus, Commitment and Sheer Fucking Will

 

[noobplant]

Damn the sun is blinding

 

[raze2012]

To argue the first point, those aren't even the same sentences. What the author wrote through the ex was frustration, lack of patience, understanding, etc. What you wrote was literally fuckbuddy dialogue.

Bro it's an 8 page chapter and a 2 bubble dialouge, I'm not gonna copy the entire dialouge. We both know what it said, if not, reread it again.

My point doesn't change. you call it frustration and lack of patience, I call it selfishness and lack of communication. They aren't even mutally exclusive, but I took his words at face value while you give a more charitable take. To each their own.

". Sex is immutably an important part of virtually any adult relationship. They way he brought it up was certainly crude, but he had his reasons and they weren't unfounded either. He obviously was not that bad to her, because the worst of scum would've simply resorted to 'other means',

And that's why I hate polarization. You can be "not literally a rapist" but still be a bad partner. He definitely came off as selfish and cold from that page of dialouge (which you could re-read 5 times in the time it took to get this far in my comment. Feel free to).

Lastly, they dated: she had all the time in the world to get the chickens in a row, and blew it. Literally by her own admission. The ex is not entirely without fault, buy neither was she.

sure, she's not faultless. But you don't say "you're boring" to someone you're trying to seriously connect with.

We have two different POVs from this ex's standpoint and from MC's. Maybe neither are wrong, but in general you shouldn't try to put down someone you are dating unless they are hurting you. "I'm horny and you don't put out" isn't hurting you.

Everyone is different and the act of dating is literally there to do resolve just that, its not just "oh hey lets just get some snacks". If you think that he didn't give respect, well then pot-meet-kettle. "I ain't a little kid", because that's what it looks like from the outside looking in.

The act of dating is to try and communicate and connect. You seem to be fixated on thinking "oh well he's free to find a better partner". He is. I'm saying you can choose to not be an asshole to your date even if you're not compatible. I'd never say "you're boring" to a friend, I'd sure as hell never say it to someone I'm dating.

P.S. I'd be down for some munchies if my girl asked. IDK exactly how sexually active Sensei was but I get that not every night will be sexy night with every woman.

 

[raze2012]

What I'm trying to figure out is why are people trying to assign blame? Sure, he's a crude asshole who probably only wanted to smash, but she also just didn't feel the same way. In fact she knows she's bad a relationships, and understands why she isn't in one.

If she responded by calling him a sleazy asshole who only wants her for her body, maybe you have a point. She didn't. One one person insulted the other, so that person will come off worse for wear as a result.

It's not 100% his fault, but I'm just saying you should respect people even if they aren't compatible.

 

[stanloona]

Ok three comments from me while reading this chap:

1. the way her tits were spilling over her crossed arms is so hilarious to me dhxhsjs i seriously just burst out laughing and had to put my phone down lmfao
2. i never like the "omg im so bland there are so many other girls out there" kind of line that characters say and then plaster a half assed/too quick of a flashback of that one scene where an ex calls them boring (I've seen this a lot bc I've read SO MANY shojo manga lol its a thing over there)
3. cute confession fr but lowkey this could easily go sideways if she wasn't kinda into it hhh

Now I'm off to read those blasted shojo mangas I love to complain about