Nah I'm with Nevaeh on this one.
If I were her I'd be thinking, "Not again. Not this time."
She spent the last 10 years getting treated like dog #$@$ because Valer was too emotionally constipated to communicate properly, treat her like an actual partner, back her up in high society, etc.
This whole ceremony was super important for her and her future in this country and Arendt's been a distant sad sack the whole time. Not. This. Time.