@RoryMercury actions have consequences and slutshaming is a good thing because being a slut is shameful. People try to make shame a bad word, but it exists for good reason, shaming is necessary because shameful things exist!
I wouldn't call a guy damaged, but if he was sleeping his way around to keep a roof over his head yes I would have absolutely zero respect for him and think he's a total piece of shit, just like I'm sure everyone else would.
Men and women are different, and while still shameful, the circumstances are different based on gender. Everyone knows that biologically we're designed to anticipate faithfulness and monogamous relationships from women. We have grown to expect the same from men but for some reason only within relationships. It's disgusting to sleep around no matter who you are or what your gender is.