I don't see how being an aunt is bad... a friend of mine was an uncle at the age of 15, it really all depends on the age gap between your older brother/sister.
The reality of the situation where you are at the age of 20+ with no love relationship while everyone is moving on having girlfriends, weddings, kids, while you’re there doing what you’ve been doing for the past couple of years is something painful. I was already an uncle at… fck 5? Yea that young, they all call me brother instead of uncle because of that, and I don’t mind it, you just have that small of an age gap. But now that my older sister has a kid and is growing up, the desire for having a lovelife skyrockets and you’ll notice that you still doesn’t have someone you love.
So yes, I understand her sentiments about being called an aunt cause fck why is my spring not coming yet?🥹