Why in other fiction do they always treat PvP shit like it represents the whole of gaming?
There is a vast swathe of RPGs out there, not to mention all the other single-player games... but only the competitive multiplayer garbage ever gets the attention...
... well, besides Visual Novels, but they're handled differently.
In any case, the only First Person Shooters worth bothering with are the ones with a strong single-player campaign.