Is she [Chilly] calling her a narcissist (at least that's how I understood the blackhole analogy) because Luoluo does so much for her without Song Li asking, from a place of concern for her friend, or is it jealousy?
It feels like it's a bit of both - she's very obviously jealous, but I'm still inclined to think she's concerned for Hu LuoLuo as well, even if she's not necessarily showing herself in a good light.
I mean, she can be genuinely concerned for someone without actually succeeding in doing anything very helpful (or even healthy) about it . . .
I'm sure Song Li isn't perfect, but whatever she's trying to call her, Chilly is the worst messenger after everything she's done. She has some audacity. No shame at all. To think she can still try and insert herself, without Luoluo's approval and with that much smugness.
Yeah, audacity is a pretty good way to describe it - she only just managed to drag herself out of the shitter with LuoLuo, and she's decided she's the right person to be gate-keeping her relationships . . . And in such a way! All she knows about Song Li is the publicly available information, what she could glean from briefly meeting maybe twice, and the handful of information that LuoLuo has provided - which basically means nothing at all.
Oh, no, I forgot one thing: Song Li is beautiful, far more beautiful than Chilly even after the plastic surgery. Beautiful, and thus charismatic in the minds of far too many people. Never mind the fact that Song Li is ridiculously awkward and spiky and in most situations has significant
negative charisma stats - this is why going mostly on the public information (which is basically publicity - advertising for her books, essentially) is so misleading.
Whereas the little bits that LuoLuo has revealed are all tinged with how she feels about Song Li, which is . . . well, confused is probably the best (only?) way to describe it, but with a strong subconscious element of "damn she's hot" hiding there. Song Li is charismatic, for sure - if you're already kind of falling in love with her, and she's kind of falling in love with you. Otherwise her mile-wide awkward streak is probably going to get in the way of everything else . . .
I can't warm up to her much, especially when it's clear Luoluo doesn't see her in the way she wants. I don't doubt jealousy is also mixed up in this (regardless of w/e truths the video reveals). She's relishing the chance to 1-up Song Li, and that's not pure friendliness.
I'm getting more and more annoyed by Chilly - she's still tolerable (just), but she's burning through my sympathy pretty quickly at the moment.