honestly, glad to see a ml with his circumstances who isn't bothersome to the fl like. glad he isnt like "wow, she's interesting bc she's the only person who didnt pay attention to me so im going to bother her until she does" like love to see that he isnt invasive out of his own insecurities that, as he acknowledges, has nothing to do with her??? like wow love to see it even if its lowkey the bare minimum but still love to see it