I'm personally guessing shes a gal, but shes the root of the issue: The original trama that caused this tulpa to form and this mindset to see women as rocks. Patient 0.
Does this make sense? Not even remotely but its what im going with.
What if he's just using pads or shit to make it look bigger?
But anyway it's not necessarily about loving trap, it'd just make sense and be quite funny (and there's nothing weird with loving traps >:c )
But even though I say that, in the end I know it's most likely not it and we are probably delusionals hoping for some twist. But we can always hopes & dreams