weirdly enough, i feel like haejoon stealing his pants was cathartic for both of them.
OK NOW GIVE JOONMIS INFO IF YOURE REALLY THAT SORRY!!!
eek. i used to be meanish to a boy my age in grade 1. i never humiliated him like THIS and never swore or touched him, but i would purposefully leave him out and others would follow my lead, since i was mildly popular (very long hair and being funny was the biggest clout you could get at 6)
it WAS because he was that kid on the playground who picks his butt and smells his fingers and called everyone over to watch him eat gross food combinations, and i wasn't the first to make fun of him, but i think i was the most mean spirited out of them. (like saying "gross! why do you keep eating yogurt with chees string! you're nasty!!" to his face or being the one to say "you cant play with us!" with me and my best friend)
(i think that counts as bullying???) (it was teasing most of the time but once i got angry at him because he was trying to join a game with only me and my one friend. that was the time i said you cant play with us. because at the time, i was mad that he was trying to play in our private game.)
he left in grade 2 but he was there since SK. he's been popping into my mind lately as well. but I'm not sure what to do!
do i bother reaching out to him? would he even want that? i don't know... i don't know his last name.........
i never made him cry. would he even remember those times? like since he never cried, there's a wayyyy slimmer chance those memories were kept since it did not affect him as bad as this. but does he remember or not?!?! argh.
i want to apologize but i have no way of finding him and since it was a more "mild" type of bullying(?), and a small window of time, I'm not sure if he even remembers.
tw bullying i think??
please advise..... but please be kind. might delete.