man, honestly the dad can go jump in a lake. you can’t not be in her life, cheat on her mom constantly, and never show remorse and then act high and mighty when you come back because you’re ill and want someone to take care of you. be more mature?? like you know anything about maturity when you have a whole family you haven’t taken proper responsibility for. guess what dude, maybe she would have a job already if she didn’t have to stress out over how she’s going to take care of YOUR wife and YOUR other daughter because you couldn’t be bothered for the past 10+ years. she’s probably FAR more mature than you after having to play second (maybe even primary since the mom isn’t doing too hot either) parent to her sister and husband/partner/emotional support to her mother who was supposed to be raising and taking care of HER. what an *ss.