it literally took one conversation for him to realize he has been an emotionally abusive asshole to his daughter. I understand grieving but it's been over ten years. He had the time to learn on his own. He is an adult and a king whose actions are watched by everyone so you'd think he'd be more aware. But mostly,
I’m tired of this trope where emotionally abusive parents immediately want to heal the family once the child sets boundaries. It's not that I don't believe parents shouldn't be allowed to it's just, that in these stories there's no denial phase, just instant recognition, and attempts for forgiveness.
The child died in the original timeline or story. The parents never noticed/cared about them then, but now they come in with this new attitude and the parents seem to immediately jump to bargaining or over-doting, not to make them return to their past behavior, but to receive forgiveness. Like for years you must have been convinced the child deserved this treatment for a reason (a shit one always) but now at this moment you are just...
"Omg why would my daughter I treated poorly stop calling me father? She used to obey and do everything for my affection without question but now she won't anymore?! Was I....a bad parent?
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You are about late 30-40-ish years old. Did your brain just develop cognitive empathy?
The brother was more realistic since he was testing the waters. Like he threw tantrums to bait her, then tried confrontation, to get her to act the way he was used and now he feels uncertain about where their relationship will go.
If the dad was going to admit he was in the wrong so quickly why was he so stupid in the first timeline?