Damn that hurts. Dude is stuck in a hole like he said but he just can't see a way out. It's really sad cause he knows he's in a hole and reorganizes he needs to do something to get out, but he just can't see any possible way to do it. And of course the saddest thing about this is how true to life this is for so many people. They don't want to be in the hole anymore than you, but some truly don't know where to go or how to begin.