You see it in the professional world sometimes. People that are extremely talented and thus have a big following, but the casual observer only ever sees their sanitized public persona (or what they want to see). It's actually pretty realistic for a manga where coworkers go to an S&M bar together.Wild that Kashimura can be a professional dom but still have that toxic ideal relationship dynamic, guy does not get it
its not the ideal relationship dynamic as much as it is getting obsessed with holding power over people. you unfortunately see a lot of straight dudes in s&m circles like this guy that assume they're gods gift to the world and become the biggest creeps around and go hard into misogyny "this is where women belong etc etc". it's nice to see them represent the scene so truthfully and show off the ugly parts too.Wild that Kashimura can be a professional dom but still have that toxic ideal relationship dynamic, guy does not get it
It's also absurdly common with straight female dommes. There just seems even more of a lack of adherence to boundaries with that dynamic, because women in general are not as used to worrying about men's boundaries during sex. There's also a kind of inherent disgust that they tend to feel for the men that submit to them, when it comes to having an actual relationship. That's been my impression. Yeah, there are dysfunctional elements on both sides in the scene.its not the ideal relationship dynamic as much as it is getting obsessed with holding power over people. you unfortunately see a lot of straight dudes in s&m circles like this guy that assume they're gods gift to the world and become the biggest creeps around and go hard into misogyny "this is where women belong etc etc". it's nice to see them represent the scene so truthfully and show off the ugly parts too.