Eh, HRT is pretty miraculous at changing people’s shape, and some basic makeup skills will make up the difference.
Also, focusing on increasing your conventional attractiveness is really not a good idea. Being objectified and sexualized both SUCK, even if they can be fun at first. If you’re worried about dating, then you’d be much better off by meeting new people and trying to make friends so you aren’t constantly projecting your insecurities into your environment.
Also… people will come up with endless reasons why they would never date a trans or gender non-conforming person based on their body, when the actual reason is either “I want a baby and don’t want to adopt” or “I just don’t like trans/gnc people”. Both of which are valid, I guess, but… you’re not the target audience. Literally, nobody cares what you think about a trans/gnc person’s body, since you’re incapable of loving one anyways.
Honestly, it seems generally true on the internet that most disparaging comments about someone's looks come from people who wouldn't date them even if they were a 9 or 10 because of inherent dislike. So just, shut up. Nobody cares. People on ""both sides"" do this and it drives me up a wall. Show some basic decency to your fellow humans. You sound like a middle school bully.
Most of that isn't really targeted at you, sorry. Just seemed like a good time to say it.