@ss4chris
as you can see, I never said it is her first relationship with that married guy. I just stated that it is her first sex based on what I read because of the attachment of the girl to that married guy. besides having relationships doesn't lead always to having sex sometimes people want a platonic relationship until they are married.
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why it is not the same?
Hyemi : She fell in love with a married man. Despite after knowing the truth, she still clinging to him because he promised to divorce his wife and she already fall hard for him.
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Lim Jang Hyuk: He tricked Hyemi to love him even though he is a married man. He only tells Hyemi after what he has done to her.
They have an age gap.
Hyemi: She have sex with Kang-Rim despite seeing someone.
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Kang-Rim: Have a strong sense of justice that lead to have his first sex with Hyemi. Despite after knowing the truth about her relationship with the married man, he still seeing his noona. They also have an age gap.
Hyemi and Lim Jang Hyuk Similarities: They both cheat despite having a partner.
Hyemi and Lim Jang Hyuk Differences:
Hyemi: After having sex with Kang-Rim, she already stated that Kang-Rim is not her boyfriend. She wants Kang-Rim as a sex friend. She advised Kang-Rim about having good sex and to be a good partner in bed.
Lim Jang Hyuk: He continued to lie Hyemi that he is planning to divorce his wife and he also used her LOVE and body.
As you can see, Kang-Rim is fortunate enough to meet Hyemi as his first partner in sex. Because Hyemi flat out stated that she didn't want him as his boyfriend but she is willing that Kang-Rim is her sex friend. Also, Hyemi taught Kang-Rim how to be a good sex partner, like she told/advice to not force someone on bed (e.g. doggystyle)/respect the preferences of others or if he doesn't like that kind of thing, he also have a right to say no.
or say yes.