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Looks like the last volume, indeed šš4 chapters left until the ending
Looks like the last volume, indeed šš4 chapters left until the ending
Ooh! Ok, Iāve got a reason to soak my mind on this topic for once! I agree with you, i donāt think love is a single street, or even a street at all. Itās more like an ant hill, you meet, fall in love with, and then leave people all the time, and the depths of those tunnels, or those feelings, vary from person to person. Just because you break up with someone doesnāt mean that you canāt love them anymore, personally i believe that āmoving onā isnāt when you stop loving someone, but that you still love someone even if you know you canāt be together. Again, itās like an ant hill, the branching tunnels are your relationships with others, the deepest ones being love, while the shallower are friends (generally), but it would take more effort to fill in that tunnel again before moving on, then it would be to accept that that tunnel is there, but itās time to move on past it.Honestly, I think this wouldn't be as much of an issue if there wasn't a pressure to think of love as being for one person and one person only. It's natural to have feelings for multiple people, you don't have to forget one to justify feelings for another. And to be clear I'm not trying to say "polyamory solves everything", what I'm saying is that you can't choose who you fall for and you can't choose to fall for multiple people at the same time. Relationships are commitments with rules, sometimes the ruleset is singular pairing, but love is not bound by societal rules. It's ok. So long as you don't hurt your SO it's ok.
I don't quite agree with the analogy, but yes. People with dead spouses, they still will always love that dead spouse yet remarry because they love someone new. Same with failed romances.Ooh! Ok, Iāve got a reason to soak my mind on this topic for once! I agree with you, i donāt think love is a single street, or even a street at all. Itās more like an ant hill, you meet, fall in love with, and then leave people all the time, and the depths of those tunnels, or those feelings, vary from person to person. Just because you break up with someone doesnāt mean that you canāt love them anymore, personally i believe that āmoving onā isnāt when you stop loving someone, but that you still love someone even if you know you canāt be together. Again, itās like an ant hill, the branching tunnels are your relationships with others, the deepest ones being love, while the shallower are friends (generally), but it would take more effort to fill in that tunnel again before moving on, then it would be to accept that that tunnel is there, but itās time to move on past it.
I donāt know if i worded this well, but thatās my thoughts on the matter.
I find this idea and analogy pretty interesting, I think it'd be worth exploring more in depth. Particularly, I kinda like your idea of "moving on" as leaving an old tunnel as it is while using other tunnels. Filling the tunnel would be, to me, repressing feelings that exist and lying to yourself because in retrospective, it'd have been more convenient if the tunnel had never existed at all. But that doesn't sound very productive, peaceful nor lasting to me. Accepting that the tunnel exists, but not maintaining it by not using it, might be an interesting solution. Maybe the old tunnel will sort of collapsing in on itself over time as a new one is strengthened. I don't want to conclude that it's a better solution, but I think it's worth thinking about.Ooh! Ok, Iāve got a reason to soak my mind on this topic for once! I agree with you, i donāt think love is a single street, or even a street at all. Itās more like an ant hill, you meet, fall in love with, and then leave people all the time, and the depths of those tunnels, or those feelings, vary from person to person. Just because you break up with someone doesnāt mean that you canāt love them anymore, personally i believe that āmoving onā isnāt when you stop loving someone, but that you still love someone even if you know you canāt be together. Again, itās like an ant hill, the branching tunnels are your relationships with others, the deepest ones being love, while the shallower are friends (generally), but it would take more effort to fill in that tunnel again before moving on, then it would be to accept that that tunnel is there, but itās time to move on past it.
I donāt know if i worded this well, but thatās my thoughts on the matter.
Mostly because harem authors have a fair degree of confidence they will be able to stay published for 200+ chapters and know that edging their readers will get them more moneh than resolving things in good order.We got 3 main couples within 48 chapters meanwhile its takes almost 200 chapters for harem protagonist to even confess to a girl.
Seriously need this to be an anime...
That explains why there is still no progress in Rent a GirlfriendMostly because harem authors have a fair degree of confidence they will be able to stay published for 200+ chapters and know that edging their readers will get them more moneh than resolving things in good order.
Niche authors rarely have that safety blanket, so they resolve their plots in a reasonable amount of chapters.
That's also why I don't expect this to ever get an adaptation.