I feel like this is the best deal he's going to get. They're mere steps away from having a proper bdsm relationship. She just needs to tone down her manipulative side and earnestly say she likes what they have.
not even fucking close. proper bdsm relationships must be made on trust and respect, which I agree would sound counterproductive, but it is how they should be. as a dom you should respect the boundaries and kinks your sub asks of you, as a sub you should really trust someone as often your freedom will be taken of you to an extend, and often you might do stuff which is, well, dangerous. where is nothing more dangerous than to bound someone with rope, like 10 ways to threaten someone's health if you don't learn proper health and safety. and to suspend someone who is bound and gaged... shit, this is hella dangerous, so sub should have absolute trust in dom, and dom must be absolutely sure in what they do and be very fucking attentive to sub's state. also consent is a thing, and safewords are not just words.
everything happening here is an abusive bullshit. bordering on being a crime. at moment I am pretty sure crime is happening. the only thing this relationships are - an example of violent codependency
dunno why I read this shit, morbid curiosity anyone?