many women are unfortunately sold the lie that "women get better with age" and think that the studs they dated when they were 25 will still want them at 45. No woman gets more desirable with age and no man does either (unless he comes into money and even then he'll be attracting women for the wrong reasons)
"I want a handsome 30yo with a 6 figure salary who has paid off his own home has a luxury car, volunteers at the homeless shelter and cares about the environment" okay but that's like 0.1% of the pool at best and they have better options than you lady.
