Kanojo ni Uwaki Sareteita Ore ga, Koakuma na Kouhai ni Natsukareteimasu - Ch. 31

[Galder]

• doesn't talk to him at all when he tries to resolve shit on his own and with the ppl involved
• gets frustrated because of that
• countless ppl tell her it's "cheating" if he walks around with another girl even tho she was okay with it when he offered to distance himself from ayaka
• not only walks with a random guy, but also holds hands

like is this supposed to be taken seriously??

 

[krater]

The comments are fire

 

[Freestyle]

TRUE! Holy hell, this comment section is filled with projection and incel whinging.

No I'm not excusing what she did, it is cheating and it was bad. Seems everyone agrees to that to a degree.

MC also made mistakes by not confiding in his GF about stuff that is troubling him. Sure, he wanted to be a 'good' BF by trying to keep that stuff away from her but, like the GF said, that just makes the partner feel like you don't trust them.

Messy young adult stuff that people learn about as they grow up.

The people in this comment section, oh boy, treating the GF like she killed his dog or something. Yea, she cheated, yea she should have talked to him but y'all acting like nothing bad happened to her because of it. He broke up with her. Y'all acting like she should be quartered.

I bet more than half of you have never known the touch of a woman and, no, body pillows don't count. Touch some grass, talk to people, grow a heart, or don't, I'm not your dad.

No one said anything remotely like what you are suggesting, they are just saying she cheated and she's wrong. wtf are you reading? are you ok in the head?

Also why do you conviniently leave out parts of the story where the MC tried to be considerate to her and told her about Ayaka from the very beginning and she repaid that by venting to her friends and not even bothering to talk to her actual boyfriend, how you are justifying this in your head by spamming the word 'incel' god knows

Gen Z kids like you seriously need to stop pretending like you are 40

 

[scathach_aozaki]

All I can say, those two really pathetic in my view, and somehow the mc not want her back is good riddance, even that his friend cheered him up doesn't mean he's cheating on her, she had a choice to not accept him (glasses guy) because he's really a wreck for ruin someone relationship.

So far all I can say is, move on and never look back on getting her back.

 

[18thMoon]

so holding hand is a great indicator of cheating as of right now?? do you even understand her inner monolog?? her intention is not clear enough for you to comprehend?? so do you mean external action is much more important than her inner intention?? then what that does even imply about all of mc's external action?? established BFF?? So it is much better to see your GF hangout with her BFF handsome guy all the time than to see her holding hand with a man who have a crush on her for just a moment, and just simply ignoring all of her intention?????? She just simply was caughted by bad timing and angle, nothing more than that.

Honestly, I disagree. You’re trying to defend Reina's actions, but she’s the one who failed to communicate that she had an issue with Yuuta being close to Ayaka. In her explanation, did she try to get to know Ayaka? Did she ever say, “Hey, can I hang out with you two?” so she could better understand their friendship? Did she even tell Yuuta she felt uncomfortable with how close he was to Ayaka? No.

In fact, when he directly asked her if texting a female best friend was a problem, she said no. So what else is he supposed to go off of...except her words? Could he have been more emotionally aware? Sure. But saying we can't fault her for failing to communicate while expecting him to confide in her makes no sense.

These are two young adults trying to be in a relationship. If one of them thinks everything is fine while the other is quietly suffering and saying nothing, how is that fair? And if she then takes those bottled-up feelings and seeks emotional validation from someone else—how is that not cheating?

She could’ve simply opened up and talked to him. That conversation might’ve strengthened their bond instead of breaking it. But instead, she acted on feelings she never expressed, and you’re ignoring how crucial that misstep was.

And in your explanation, you said maybe it was too hard for her to communicate how she felt to Yuuta… but that’s still her fault. As his girlfriend, it’s her responsibility to let him know when she’s uncomfortable. People aren’t mind readers, bro. You can’t just sit there and expect someone to guess that something’s wrong. Sure, he could’ve been more observant, but at the end of the day, it’s on her to speak up. Instead, she went looking for emotional validation from someone else… and let’s be real, cheating isn’t always physical. An emotional affair is still cheating. I don’t know how many relationships you’ve been in, but if you’re not mature enough to understand that… then maybe you’re not ready to be having this kind of conversation.

 

[18thMoon]

Yeah her cheating just boils down to them holding hands lol and everyone is so pissed on her when our MC is literally hanging out with Ayaka more than his girlfriend lol

It’s much deeper than that. What you’re failing to see is that Reina was actively seeking an emotional affair. She literally says with her own mouth, “Maybe if I have a male friend, I can be on the same level as Yuuta and Ayaka.” That’s not just a throwaway comment… it reveals her mindset. The reason people aren’t siding with her, unlike you and that other guy, is because by her own admission, she failed to communicate. And instead of doing what a girlfriend is supposed to do, which is talk to her boyfriend, she chose to chase emotional validation from a guy who was clearly just trying to sleep with her. That’s not maturity… that’s avoidance. And that’s exactly why people are calling it what it is.

 

[ExarchOfAfrica]

I suppose I'm thinking about my future now. I would not want my GF to have a male friend whom she relied on rather than me. That's going to make me very insecure and feel betrayed. Reina was right to feel betrayed, I don't think the author is gaslighting. My larger issue is why Reija started dating her junior. His actions are manipulative. He is not arguing why he would make a good boyfriend, only that he's not as bad as Yuuta. I'm surprised she feel for his underhanded moves even in her troubled state. Perhaps he is the real villian of this story, acting like he knows much more than he actually does in order to manipulate a vulnerable young lady.

 

[emMeBi86]

Nah, all of these comments are just simply crazy. Do we even read the same chapter??? Just switch up the fck*n role, imagine ur GF is the one who has a male best friend that just straight far superior than you instead. And furthermore, he chose to ask her for a help when he was in trouble instead of even mentioning anything to you, and you just found out by accident after it happened. Communication?? Straight asking him if he is cheating?? Asking him to just straight cut-off his best friend?? Most of these actions would not exactly do you any goods. Miscommunication happens all the time, there are a lot of things that can't be easily communicate with and are much better not to, no matter what kind of relationship you have. Can't even really blame her all that much, all she did was trying to test if she will feel guilty or not on a whim if she is the one having an opposite gender best friend instead. Honestly, this mange deserves harem route ending judging by how the story is being told this far.

The fact is that our MC never said that her friend was better than his girlfriend, it's her that is feeling inferior.
They both are at fault because they don't communicate properly, but if he's the one troubled, she could have at least asked or offered her help instead of just mumbling about it and leaving him in trouble.

 

[eduardomx]

Nah, all of these comments are just simply crazy. Do we even read the same chapter??? Just switch up the fck*n role, imagine ur GF is the one who has a male best friend that just straight far superior than you instead. And furthermore, he chose to ask her for a help when he was in trouble instead of even mentioning anything to you, and you just found out by accident after it happened. Communication?? Straight asking him if he is cheating?? Asking him to just straight cut-off his best friend?? Most of these actions would not exactly do you any goods. Miscommunication happens all the time, there are a lot of things that can't be easily communicate with and are much better not to, no matter what kind of relationship you have. Can't even really blame her all that much, all she did was trying to test if she will feel guilty or not on a whim if she is the one having an opposite gender best friend instead. Honestly, this mange deserves harem route ending judging by how the story is being told this far.

TRUE! Holy hell, this comment section is filled with projection and incel whinging.

No I'm not excusing what she did, it is cheating and it was bad. Seems everyone agrees to that to a degree.

MC also made mistakes by not confiding in his GF about stuff that is troubling him. Sure, he wanted to be a 'good' BF by trying to keep that stuff away from her but, like the GF said, that just makes the partner feel like you don't trust them.

Messy young adult stuff that people learn about as they grow up.

The people in this comment section, oh boy, treating the GF like she killed his dog or something. Yea, she cheated, yea she should have talked to him but y'all acting like nothing bad happened to her because of it. He broke up with her. Y'all acting like she should be quartered.

I bet more than half of you have never known the touch of a woman and, no, body pillows don't count. Touch some grass, talk to people, grow a heart, or don't, I'm not your dad.

fujoshi moment

 

[HawkGoggles]

So I re-read this whole story just so I had full context on the deciding factor for this entire mess being, "holding hands." Now I know Reina could have gotten pregnant but this is the dumbest thing I've ever seen in my life. I'd like to say I understand why my mom likes Soap Operas but those guys actually have sex when they cheat on each other.

Everything about this is dumb, and I don't just mean Reina, I mean EVERYTHING. We're in the realms of emotional cheating. She just wanted to see if she could have what Yuta and Ayaka has, which in her mind, hopefully wouldn't be cheating. But she wasn't in thier situation

Spoiler: what happens next

and she realized that and pushed that guy way.

But no i don't think she cheated. Did Yuuta emotinally cheat with Ayaka. No, but what he did do was distance himself from his girlfriend while spending time with Ayaka to deal with a problem in a group (Ayaka wasn't even apart of). And somehow for over a year didn't introduce his girlfriend to his best friend.

That is all to say, I get where both of them are coming from. No comunication from either side and if I was in either's shoes, imagining the worst isn understanable. and I get the hate for Reina because she was in a relationship so people think she should have tried harder before acting out.

But my problem with this story is that no one can conmmunicate and they all should lonely because they all fail at keeping clear and open relatinships. I get I'm reading a drama but everyboy is a red flag. Shinohara is a manic pixe girl stalker. Ayaka is this wierdo that constatly tests her relationship with Yuuta, even before he started dating Reina. And Reina is probably the most normal person here, next to Yuuta.

I know it would never happen but the actual mature thing for this story to do, would be fore Yuuta to end back up with Reina. For the two to actually talk to each other and for her to win out because she's the only person who can admit that she actually likes someone. But I won't be here for any ending because I aready wasted part of my weekend reading this train wreck. Also the pacing is ass, no way I coudl read this on its release schedual.

 

[asspussy]

If she's that dumb she deserves every shit that'll happen to her.

Watch mc apologize to her in the next chapter :v

 

[CrimsonSix]

A lot of development for someone clearly meant to be a losing heroine.

 

[KuroViLolitannia]

Sis, I hang out with female friends often back then. None of that means I'm having a date with them. I was and am still a single weeb loser. Seriously.

 

[UdenEmpati]

I know it would never happen but the actual mature thing for this story to do, would be fore Yuuta to end back up with Reina. For the two to actually talk to each other and for her to win out because she's the only person who can admit that she actually likes someone. But I won't be here for any ending because I aready wasted part of my weekend reading this train wreck. Also the pacing is ass, no way I coudl read this on its release schedual.

honestly, just because she can admit she likes someone doesn't automatically mean she should get Yuuta back. After all, it was her inability to voice her concerns to her boyfriend that started this whole mess.
They should get closure from one another and then go their separate ways. Let Yuuta figure out his relationship with Ayaka, tell Natsuki to screw off every time she enters his field of vision, and then learn how to reciprocate Miyu's attention and affections because - even if she's a "manic pixie girl stalker", she's also weirdly the healthiest one of the bunch for Yuuta as far as a potential relationship goes (not a high bar to clear, but clear it she has).

And Reina will hopefully learn a lesson from all this in being more communicative in the future when she finds someone else.

 

[magnetsmangadex]

What age group is this manga targeting? Seems like the story is getting people to think about how important communication is in a relationship. The author is even showing where resistance to this can cause more problems.

I don't think the author trying to gaslight us, more the opposite. People can be persuasive and wrong, it happens in real life, and so it should be fine in stories.

Oopsiedoodles crossed a line tee-hee. Doesn't negate crossing a line.

 

[18thMoon]

the funny part about all these comments is 90% of you would lose your fucking minds if your girlfriend was constantly hanging out with a male best friend whom you perceived to be better than you, but keep coping lol

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you're not entirely wrong. Yeah, 90% of people would probably lose it if their girlfriend had a male best friend. But here's the thing—if that guy was already part of the picture before you came along, and then you suddenly start feeling uncomfortable about how close they are, isn't that kind of on you for not communicating it from the jump?

That's exactly where Reina dropped the ball. She never expressed how insecure she felt about Yuuta and Ayaka's bond. She expected Yuuta to open up to her, but never gave him the same in return. She wanted emotional honesty but couldn’t offer it herself.

So for you to overlook that dynamic entirely? That’s wild to me.

 

[babugue]

Her sense of inferiority actually came more from her friend, Natsuki. That's why I dislike her so much; she said all sorts of things to both of them, but acted like it was their problem to resolve... Like, she would talk trash and then act as if she had done nothing wrong, leaving them to sort it out. Most of what she said in the manga was downplayed. She was the one who had many negative 'thoughts' about Yuuta and Ayaka's relationship, even more than the younger student. But hey... It's still as bad as I remember. I really hate how things get worse whenever we see the beginning of their relationship and how happy she and Yuuta were together. I don't remember in the novel that she interlocked fingers with the guy, which is even worse than just holding hands, as you only do that with your boyfriend and so on, so it's even more symbolic.

Now I need my dose of wholesomeness after this... Thank God chapter 35 of 'My Bias Gets On The Last Train' was released today.

 

[Silbo]

Has so much aura she makes women seethe at her mere presence

 

[InsomniacReader]

…Jesus H Christ, it’s like School Rumble but not even on a molecular level of it being as funny as School Rumble.

Just TALK! I appreciate this story being a whirlwind of emotions and grounded in “complexity”, such is Youth, but my guy you saw Handholding and couldn’t bear to hear her side for like a year or something (I honestly forget how long.) Any salvaging of this relationship is DONE because the Ex shouldn’t have to deal with the MC’s BS.

It’s not solely on the MC, both MC and EX needed to communicate better before it got to this point, but again such is Youth they are young and barely know better, but the MC is the one to just keep running away, the Ex took her time to reflect and try to extend an olive branch. It’s not till nearly everyone Forcing the MC to face her and Listen.

 

[Callidus]

Dunno man, this POV Reina looks like Miyuki from Jinsei Gyakuten - Uwaki sare. Bad communication & Too innocent to be easily tricked from bad boy or bad girl

After that first chapter I read the WN. While certainly with it's flaws, boy did it raise my expectations for these types of stories, and it really was a breath of fresh air when the vast majority of stories end up like Kanojo where the author tries to justify the cheater.

Everyone, read Jinsei. It is really satisfying.