Akanabe-sensei wa Tereshirazu - Vol. 3 Ch. 31 - Sensei and Swimsuits

[Oota]

I kinda hate the "I don't want to go there because other men will look at you trope" like bro you get it all wrong, it's the occasion to flaunt how attractive your partner is, go out there and show the world she's yours

 

[AzumaKeiichi]

Kouki: Give me a moment!

 

[Kagimizu]

I'll never understand this. So what if other guys are looking at her? She's with you and you should have at least a little bit of confidence in her and yourself. At some point this would come off as controlling. Thanks for the chapter!!!

Like she said, there's the desire to monopolize. It's hard to put into words logically. Like... it's your own little secret that you have the unique privilege of knowing and enjoying. Like a secret spot or a hidden gem. And you don't want to share because then it's not something that's just yours. Taking it further, there's the fear/concern that someone else won't value it the same way you do. Or worse, try to sully it or take it away from you. And when it comes to another person, knowing or seeing something that no-one else does reflects and reaffirms that you and your relationship with that person are uniquely special.

He not only loves but is deeply attracted to her, and because of that he wants to keep her to himself. Particularly the image of her in a swimsuit; he wants to keep other guys from ogling her, or worse trying to hit on or do something to her. It's also that sense of "this image is for me and me alone", something only he can see because of their relationship.

Is it logical or sensible? Not particularly, no. It's born from a base, instinctual/animalistic sense of territorialism and possession. But monkey brains are going to monkey brain.

 

[Guest001]

God please give me a wife like her, please give me a wife like her, please give me a wife like her, please give me a wife like her....

 

[FullCherries]

Fuck this pussy MC. This unworthy fucker denied us our rightfully earned pool/beach episode!

Have some GOD DAMN FAITH! It might take a little time, but we will get that beach episode. Trust me.

 

[nathan67003]

swimsuit at the pool

That's an adorable idea but consider the following:
Swimsuit... at the home.
Aaand the author's based like that, nice

 

[daSweep]

"It's getting hard to hold back my lust!"

My brother in christ, you are dating this woman and she has said multiple times that she feels comfortable doing lewd things with you. Just go for it.

 

[Septazia]

"In a place with so many other guys, Akira san wearing a swimsuit feels a bit...I don't like it."

Jesus Christ son, why don't you move to Iran then and join the morality police then?
I fucking hate this trope in Manga, not only is the MC acting incredibly insecure, but is also possessive.

 

[jonathaneze]

I'll never understand this. So what if other guys are looking at her? She's with you and you should have at least a little bit of confidence in her and yourself. At some point this would come off as controlling. Thanks for the chapter!!!

just because someone feels uncomfortable doesnt mean theyre insecure you know.

theres a diff between control and boundaries, also if expressing discomfort gets instantly dismissed as “controlling,” that sounds more like emotional gaslighting.

but well i could relate with him just because personally im not a good person, i know what a male can imagine when see girls in sexy outfit and well its not really "good" , of course i know not every guy is like me but im sure majority are so in the end im still uncomfortable

 

[Graywing]

Y

just because someone feels uncomfortable doesnt mean theyre insecure you know.

theres a diff between control and boundaries, also if expressing discomfort gets instantly dismissed as “controlling,” that sounds more like emotional gaslighting.

but well i could relate with him just because personally im not a good person, i know what a male can imagine when see girls in sexy outfit and well its not really "good" , of course i know not every guy is like me but im sure majority are so in the end im still uncomfortable

That's fine but the point is not to make being uncomfortable your partners problem/burden. As I already stated I see a lot of this in manga/anime where the boyfriend is so insecure that he refuses to have his partner where a swimsuit or even a dress (sometimes even a hairstyle). That's ridiculous and definitely screams insecurity. So if she wanted to go to the pool with the swimsuit would he tell her she can't go or wear it? That would be controlling but we didn't get to that point because she decided to go along with his wishes. When I was in college I had no problems with my gf wearing a bikini because I know she's with me and I had trust in her. Hopefully he builds that trust but unfortunately in some of these stories they don't and the gf just goes along with his insecurities. Which is not a good thing.

 

[MadScientist666]

Only in manga can the perfect woman exist😭

Actually... I met some who were as assertive, flirtatious and attractive as sensei here. They DO exist, but they're so swarmed by other guys that you really need to stand out to be noticed. I somehow managed to stand out and was still rejected, lol. But at least I tried, and I had the very amusing situation to see how a strong, assertive and beautiful woman turned into a shy mess around me afterwards and I almost laughed my ass off.

 

[FGRayz]

Only in manga can the perfect woman exist😭

Boku no Kanojo wa Saikoudesu! try this to ma men

 

[Eternalsleep]

Boku no Kanojo wa Saikoudesu! try this to ma men

Oh I had this one bookmarked since pre serialization😭 love me an height gap couple

 

[FGRayz]

Oh I had this one bookmarked since pre serialization😭 love me an height gap couple

and this manga based on true story couple has a x account if i remember correctly they had stream yt sometimes

 

[Bonzalez]

Chad Kouki wont let some filthy weeb manga readers ogle his gf in a swimsuit. Get rekt.

Except he did literally in this chapter

 

[Bonzalez]

I'll never understand this. So what if other guys are looking at her? She's with you and you should have at least a little bit of confidence in her and yourself. At some point this would come off as controlling. Thanks for the chapter!!!

Personally it feels good going with my girl to the beach knowing all the guys ogling her can't touch her and I can