Kabeyaku Nado Fuyou to Tsuihousareta S-kyuu Boukensha, <Dorei Kaihou> Skill wo Kushi shite Shijou Saikyou no Kunizukuri - Ch. 18

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Wait, ive run through that phase tho.
me and her are that close, when the day i telling her i love her she just reply "oh i love u too, u like a brother to mine" i want her to explain more but....

Now it's feel's weird, i still love her tho, but the thing she said always ringging on my head, and i think i am in the wrong....
Am i?..
No i had similar experience. My advice is just treat her as a friend.

In my case, one girl was super clingy to me in highschool and out. She'd have boyfriends but still cling to me. Have me listen to her bitch about problems and issues, try to sleep over and really physical.

I couldn't stand it and asked her what does she want us to be. Sh3 replied that she wanted me to be a big bro to her. So I said fine, then that's all I'll ever be for you.

It's a waste of time and emotions to pine for someone who keeps you as a safe "backup".
 
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No i had similar experience. My advice is just treat her as a friend.

In my case, one girl was super clingy to me in highschool and out. She'd have boyfriends but still cling to me. Have me listen to her bitch about problems and issues, try to sleep over and really physical.

I couldn't stand it and asked her what does she want us to be. Sh3 replied that she wanted me to be a big bro to her. So I said fine, then that's all I'll ever be for you.

It's a waste of time and emotions to pine for someone who keeps you as a safe "backup".
Thanks for the suggestion, this may help me tho.

And a little thing, both of our story are freaking Similar from top to bottom like hell, are we conected¿😭
Or girl just do those thing to someone they trust.
 
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Dude why does the ML always have to be a rock. He's so chad but the author makes him a dunce when it comes to women, kinda annoying. At least acknowledge it and then put slow development.

Thanks KDT for translating
 
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Thanks for the suggestion, this may help me tho.

And a little thing, both of our story are freaking Similar from top to bottom like hell, are we conected¿😭
Or girl just do those thing to someone they trust.
That's because both of you were friendzoned, which basically means the girl sees you as another girl. Some of them even would go as far as waltzing around half-naked or/and sleep in the same bed. And this, unfortunately for all parties involved, includes physical contact. You see, when we, guys, initiate a physical contact, we usually want sex. When the women initiate physical contact they often want to convey intimacy, closeness and/or friendship.
So, for guy-friend the whole situation is incredibly infuriating, because the girl keeps on sending conflicting messages, while at the same time, the girl doesn't realize she is doing something wrong, because that's how she would behave with girl-friend.

Btw, this also means you can get away with some 'stuff', just don't be creep.
 
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Thanks for the suggestion, this may help me tho.

And a little thing, both of our story are freaking Similar from top to bottom like hell, are we conected¿😭
Or girl just do those thing to someone they trust.
Girls do that. You (and me) are seen as backups for when they're ready to settle down.

Or worse, she treats you like a confidence boost.

Either way, don't waste time on someone who doesn't see you that way, life's too short for that.

Edit: i had also been cheated on, went through an angry and depressed period, but now I'm married with 3 kids.
 
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Thank you very much for publishing the chapter!



A little sad to see her disheartened, but I mean come on, you're partially to blame for him leaving in the first place. He's not a mind reader, he didn't know that you were/are in love with him, and just before he left for this desolate location, he was told that you were dating someone else. Give him a break, and get used to the new party already.
She didn't leave him. He left her because he was a dumbass who believed someone with talking to the other party involved.
 

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