Osake to Senpai Kanojo to no Amaama Doukyo Lovecome wa Nijuusai ni Natte kara - Ch. 4.5 - Drink 4.5: In the bathroom; my mouth is bone-dry, but his b…

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What is with Japanese people in manga and seeing a problem with being sexually attracted to your partner, isn't that what you're supposed to feel?

Why is it always seen as a bad thing?
And they wonder why they have such a crisis with low birthrates lol

(It's multifaceted but damn, if this is an actual problem then friggin' heck)
 
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What is with Japanese people in manga and seeing a problem with being sexually attracted to your partner, isn't that what you're supposed to feel?

Why is it always seen as a bad thing?

The only somehow logical reason I can think of would be that he doesn’t want to give her the impression he’s in just for her body… but considering they are both adults, that still sounds dumb !

No wonder NTR has such success as a genre if they cannot even bother to satisfy their partner !!!
 
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He is playing it safe. What if woman regret their relationship later and accuse him of retroactive rape.
The only somehow logical reason I can think of would be that he doesn’t want to give her the impression he’s in just for her body… but considering they are both adults, that still sounds dumb !

No wonder NTR has such success as a genre if they cannot even bother to satisfy their partner !!!
I would say these are partially the reason why sex is recommended to be had after marriage, but even then, there's now 'marital rape' that women use for sex they don't want to have with their own husband. At this point, there's no benefit for men in most of today's marriages.

These two are skipping steps by cohabiting before tying the knot, but if the woman is that obsessed with MC that she has no idea what she's doing with her advances, maybe marriage is a viable option here.
 
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Good lord... people, he literally spells it out. He's still insecure about the relationship, especially with how she's always able to get a rise out of him. He's worried that if he always goes along with whatever she wants, she'll get bored of him and dump him. It's about the balance of power in the relationship and the matter of his pride. He wants to feel like he's her equal, like he's able to occasionally turn the tables on her.

So he holds himself back rather than get strung along and swept up in her pace. Because, like he said, he wants to treasure her. He wants this relationship to last. Which means not being a horny little dog on a leash. You also hafta remember; he doesn't see what we see. He doesn't know what we know. Like the fact that she is similarly insecure about the relationship and herself, and is just as deeply, madly in love with him as he is with her.
 
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Good lord... people, he literally spells it out. He's still insecure about the relationship, especially with how she's always able to get a rise out of him. He's worried that if he always goes along with whatever she wants, she'll get bored of him and dump him. It's about the balance of power in the relationship and the matter of his pride. He wants to feel like he's her equal, like he's able to occasionally turn the tables on her.

So he holds himself back rather than get strung along and swept up in her pace. Because, like he said, he wants to treasure her. He wants this relationship to last. Which means not being a horny little dog on a leash. You also hafta remember; he doesn't see what we see. He doesn't know what we know. Like the fact that she is similarly insecure about the relationship and herself, and is just as deeply, madly in love with him as he is with her.
You expect media literacy out of a mangadex user?
 

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