Oh ffs another of this crap trope of the girl wanting to have sex and the "nope! i want to cherish you or whatever" bruh, sex is part of love and relationship, if she wants it, you give it to her, do you think that women can't get horny?.
Irl, the only thing this would do was making her feel unwanted and very displeased, i know this from experience. Also, all men think with their lower head, so this is kind of not happening irl.
This kind of story is shit and unrealistic.